Things We Said

Blunders

Describe the biggest faux-pas you have ever made at a play party or during a BDSM scene.

Read More…

Secret Fantasy

Describe the secret fantasy scene you would most like to be involved in at a Sagacity play party. (note: the original question also asked "Who are the players and what are they doing". This was left out to protect the privacy of the guilty parties. You know who you are ...)

Read More…

Whatta Wish

Tell us something that you have secretly wished you could try but haven't. Explain why you haven't.

Read More…

Three Wrongs

List 3 things you can't stand a play partner to do and why. (Considering the number of responses per person, you would think the instruction read "List approximately 3 things...")

Read More…

Say It Ain't So

List two things you will never see at a Sagacity party. (Again, Sagacityites are having trouble with the concept of providing only the number of responses stated in the instruction. So, responses are listed in a simple list, not in pairs.)

Read More…

BDSM Trick Or Treat

Happy Halloween! What's your least favorite BDSM trick, and, what's your most favorite BDSM treat?

Read More…

Dear Santa

The best present Santa could give me...

Read More…

Mindreader

List at least 3 things that you wish your play partner would ask you before the (Public or Private) scene begins

Read More…

The BDSM Collar

How do you define it, and what does it mean to you?

Read More…

Protocol

Is it the Sub's responsibilty to approach or petition a dominant? or Does a submissive wait to be approached by a dominant?

Read More…

Show And Tell Night

Our members exhibit their favourite toys.

Read More…

Safewords

Do you have a safeword? Have you ever had to use a safeword, and if so, why? Were you satisfied with the outcome of using a safeword?

Read More…

Band-Aids And Kisses

What are the things you need or want when it comes to aftercare? Remember: Aftercare is not bottom-specific...Tops need aftercare too.

Read More…

One-Night Play Date

In the chat room, discussion about playing with others brought these (tongue-in-cheek) rules to life.

Read More…