Things We Said
Blunders
Describe the biggest faux-pas you have ever made at a play party or during a BDSM scene.
Secret Fantasy
Describe the secret fantasy scene you would most like to be involved in at a Sagacity play party. (note: the original question also asked "Who are the players and what are they doing". This was left out to protect the privacy of the guilty parties. You know who you are ...)
Whatta Wish
Tell us something that you have secretly wished you could try but haven't. Explain why you haven't.
Three Wrongs
List 3 things you can't stand a play partner to do and why. (Considering the number of responses per person, you would think the instruction read "List approximately 3 things...")
Say It Ain't So
List two things you will never see at a Sagacity party. (Again, Sagacityites are having trouble with the concept of providing only the number of responses stated in the instruction. So, responses are listed in a simple list, not in pairs.)
BDSM Trick Or Treat
Happy Halloween! What's your least favorite BDSM trick, and, what's your most favorite BDSM treat?
Dear Santa
The best present Santa could give me...
Mindreader
List at least 3 things that you wish your play partner would ask you before the (Public or Private) scene begins
The BDSM Collar
How do you define it, and what does it mean to you?
Protocol
Is it the Sub's responsibilty to approach or petition a dominant? or Does a submissive wait to be approached by a dominant?
Show And Tell Night
Our members exhibit their favourite toys.
Safewords
Do you have a safeword? Have you ever had to use a safeword, and if so, why? Were you satisfied with the outcome of using a safeword?
Band-Aids And Kisses
What are the things you need or want when it comes to aftercare? Remember: Aftercare is not bottom-specific...Tops need aftercare too.
One-Night Play Date
In the chat room, discussion about playing with others brought these (tongue-in-cheek) rules to life.