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DO YOU HAVE A SPIRIT OF ADVENTURE? (Updated 3.08.10) "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." Friedrich Nietzsche. I am a transplanted US citizen living and residing in Victoria, B.C. who is a stimulating, educated; experienced; creative and exceeding erotic professional male with old school protocol (think HOH), that desires an adventuresome relationship with an honest; caring and educated or street smart feminine submissive woman that is highly sexual. What I seek is someone "real" and has always been in control of her daily work and home life and would now like to pass the "baton" of control (TPE) to another. Someone who is self sufficient, independent, and RELIABLE, but down deep in their heart of hearts, know they have that craving to feel the passion they have been missing by being involved with a strong man who loves to take charge and be in control, and who will bask in your "womaness". I want the woman who I enjoy to feel free to express herself and act out her fantasies unfettered by traditional sex roles or crippled by male insecurity. I’m a laid-back; calm, gentle, muscled; manly gentleman, who is soft spoken, witty (with a dry sense of humor), sane; secure; and emotionally/financially stable & sexually enlightened...am a romantic; divorced; emotionally available, well traveled, street smart; well read (always have several books on the go); university educated (two degrees obtained later in life for self improvement) New York City born and bred eclectic male, who knows what he wants in life. Due to having lived in one of the truly great cities of the world (Manhattan, New York), my life has been enriched by the rich culture of music (symphonic; blues & Jazz); opera; live theatre, and art, giving me opportunities not afforded many...I have had four careers and have been successful in both business and personal pursuits and currently involved in my own very stimulating biz which takes me to different time zones of the world. Having been a leader of men and women all of my life (as the head of various corporations) and find I cannot be in a "plain vanilla" relationship (I think of it more like "vanilla/fudge"). I am a young looking "61 forever", 6' tall; well endowed (wide); fit and slender male with a full head of salt/pepper hair (yes, its all mine) and have blue/green eyes, which change with the colors of the season. Am into many physical activities (bike; hike; walk; sail; camp and work out 4X a week) and have been athletic all of my life which has kept me in good shape (I have been blessed with the results of daily exercise and good food choices which seems to make a difference for me since my doc tells me my biological age is 55 and am in better shape then most of her patients in their 40s!). I love mental, spiritual, philosophical and cultural pursuits and giving back to society (presently as a mentor for university grad students), and have produced several programs for University theatre and a Costa Rican Radio station. Have traveled throughout the U.S., Europe, Central America, and just returned from the two islands of New Zealand...eat and cook natural organic foods, attend opera, the theatre (live), musical concerts, visit museums, and love movies...do physical exercise, lift weights and am passionate about whatever I undertake to do while being casual in my attire (except when I dress up in leather). The woman that responds to this profile will enjoy doing things (I am NOT a couch potato)...She will be made to feel safe, secure and cared for and enjoy many cultural, physical, mental, and other opportunities. However, just to be clear, I am NOT looking for a "bedroom submissive" only, unless you just want to play…and while I understand some of us are looking for something or someone for a LTR, I am also realistic that some women just want to have fun without complications, so if we can meet one another along this path of enlightenment knowing “life is so short“, why not enjoy the time we have together and make it a pleasured one? Therefore, I am open to meeting a fun loving, playful, female to be my friend & some-time lover...one who either knows what she wants, or is open to learning and experimenting with a reliable, experienced man of integrity, and is comfortable with who she is. I'm looking for a relationship that encompasses both kink and playful sexuality; oral delights; acting out scenes from 9 1/2 Weeks (think blindfolds and food); and vanilla activities (Vanilla/Fudge Combo) seamlessly...Someone who can communicate beyond one sentence, has a nurturing style, and who would like to "dress" for me (I am a heels; boots; garter belt; bustier aficionado) and love to buy them for I enjoy a woman's "womaness". I am very low key and discreet and live in a quiet area of downtown Victoria overlooking the water. If you are interested, I will expect you to send me a pic or two from your pvt email addy and I will do likewise. If you are not willing to send one to my private email address, then don’t bother to respond. Should we go the next step, a first name is requested and expected. There are many experiences (perhaps firsts) that the "right" woman can enjoy with me, so take a chance and drop me a line for I promise I wouldn't bite. Well perhaps nibble, it lasts longer that way. Mail to: TnH Ladies, do you like your man, fit, attractive, intelligent, evolved, kind, with a base of integrity. If so, a 46-year-old male seeks like-minded ladies. I enjoy some light bondage, not big into pain,I enjoy some role plays (including age play). I'm new to much of this BDSM but willing to learn. I consider myself a switch. I'm not much of a bar fan, I enjoy 420 time more than drinks. I have many talents and skills among them, great chef, carpenter, and personal training,(BC-certified and lots of experience). If this ad catches your eye, send a message and I will reply. Mail to: t 55-year-old sophisticated, gentleman, tall and manly looking, wishes and craves to be subject to a true humiliatrix. Must thoroughly enjoy humiliating their man in private and public. Must be adept at verbal and psychological humiliation and torment as well as the obvious physical obedient acts of increased degradation. I am serious and devoted. Would also consider a couple if so inclined. Mail to: me I'm a 28-year-old Eastern European male with a slim and smooth body, boyish good looks, and a large sized package who is looking to fulfill my foot fetish desires with a woman. Would love to worship your feet for as long as you need me to. I'm also into serving you by pampering your ass with my tongue. I'm new to Victoria but not to kink. I have played with some of the best kinksters in Alberta and Ontario. Hoping to use that experience out here with you ;) BBW and curvy girls are my preference, but nobody will be turned away. I am here to serve, after all ;) I can also fulfill my foot fetish desires while being dominant, if that interests you. Mail to: tk I am a 45-year-old MWM Dominant. Totally new to this lifestyle so I am seeking an experienced sub female to teach me the ropes or an experienced DOM who would be so kind as to let me observe their work . I am a sane professional person and have been drawn to this lifestyle for many years but remain inexperienced. I would appreciate anyone who would like to share their knowledge be it actively or passively through email. Mail to: RN Good looking 49-year-old, 220 lbs , 6'1" Dominant male seeking younger female sub or sub curious to explore BDSM adventures, respecting whatever level to be enjoyed. I'm a strong trusting, caring dominant that wishes to train and teach a disobedient submissive lady, possibly to collar her. She would like to explore bondage, sensory deprivation, spankings, nipple play, hair pulling. I live in the Nanaimo area, but willing to travel. Mail to: WS Attractive 6 ft, 175 lbs, 58-year-old man would like to meet a top man close in age to train me to be his slave. I have had some experience I am very interested in bondage discipline and any kind of group activities. Mail to: MfM Male/female couple, 26- and 34-years-old looking to fulfill BDSM fantasies no matter what they are and how we or you are used during these fantasies. We love bondage, so if your interested in fulfilling any fantasies please don't hesitate to e-mail us.
Mail to: MFC Spanking Daddy Top looking for some younger butts to spank train and enjoy. You should be 20-35 years of age, clean, safe, and HQP.. or slim and smooth to average. Limits respected but pushed. Can get into role play daddy/son...daddy/boytoy...into bondage diapering. This can be spanking to help you reach some of your goals in life or just because you want and need it. Daddy is 57 years old, 6 ft 195 lbs, has a lot of equipment, and has been spanking college guys for ~10 years now. Mail to: SD Hello, I am a Gentle Dom (63) fairly new to the lifestyle. I am looking or some help and guidance. Please contact me if you are interested. Mail to: N SWF sub: At 55, I’m in my prime... a vibrant semi-retired straight woman, with a passionate, loving heart. I’ve mellowed, grown in complexity and depth through life’s joys and trials, and I’m enthusiastically building a new life for myself on the Island. I look forward to connecting in a true partnership with a friend/lover who is capable of deep intimacy. Could it be you? I am voluptuous and highly sexual, and am exploring both Tantra and my sensual submissive side. I'm not looking for just anyone who can be dominant; I'm looking for a very special dom who is gentle and respectful, treating me as a full equal outside the bedroom and taking charge in the bedroom. For me, the power play is secondary to sensuality/sex. I don't think I would ever get into kink in a really heavy duty way, but at the same time, I am very turned on by some of it. A blend of Tantra and kink is appealing to me. I live in Nanaimo, but I am semi-retired and free to travel; my time is my own. My peaceful days unfold near the sea on Vancouver Island with reading, photography, close friends, workshops, the arts, walks, conversation, and writing poetry and prose, as well as getaways to beautiful places. My spiritual life is important to me, but I'm not into organized religion. I care about the environment and drive a hybrid. Beauty feeds my soul, whether it's beautiful music, nature, art, theatre, dance, whatever. My friends enjoy my sense of humour, warmth and openness. I am tender, healthy, courageous, soft, serious, playful, irreverent, witty, shy, sensuous, outrageous, vulnerable, playful, intense, surrendering, and a myriad of other things as well. (Yes, I'm full of contradictions... aren't we all?) I'm looking for a peaceful warrior, a man who’s used his life experience to grow some wisdom and knows what’s really important in life. You appreciate a grounded life with a loving woman. Emotionally available, you are intelligent and caring, and can meet me fully in intimate communication, intellectually, in fun, and sexually. You know how to give and receive nurturing, combining tenderness and testosterone in a blend that is grounded in spiritual integrity and lovingness. You want to invest time and energy into co-creating a wonderful partnership. You love the sexual charge of a woman is both strong and yielding, feisty and sensually submissive. You love touch, reading, music, quiet conversation, sensuality, community, and close connection. You may be moderately introverted or moderately extroverted, but not a hermit or a party animal. You have close friendships and would rather walk hand in hand on a quiet beach than sit in front of the TV. Mail to: NT 41-year-old female submissive looking for someone to teach me. No experience at all and not sure of what limits I have. Lots of free time both evening and daytime. Interested in all aspects of the lifestyle. Mail to: fl I am a mwm, living in a very vanilla relationship. I am older, but look quite young (where have you heard that, before?) Anyway. I would like to meet someone to give me a good, hard bare-bottom spanking. I am new to this, so, a novice spanker would be fine. Also, I am very willing to exchange roles, if that works. If you are a newbie, let's definitely exchange, and discover our likes. Man, woman, couple, any age. If you would like to spank me to blubbering, mail me back. I would like to start with a straight-ahead hand spanking, then, see what comes up...belt, hairbrush, whatever. Discretion is a must. I live in the Victoria area and am free most mornings. Please get in touch. SJ Switch person (58 years young) well educated in BDSM, over 40 years experience. Nothing shocks me. Sexually un-inhibited. Seeking couples, males, females for ongoing BDSM fun. I can be Dom but prefer to be submissive. Love to cross-dress as well and can wear 6” high heels etc. if you are a Dom female/male seeking a sub to experiment, try out those new equipment you have always wanted to try I am here. Also for those Doms seeking to further educate themselves in the BDSM field I can offer well grounded experience. WP Charming and sexy Dom is seeking a lady who requires occasional discipline. I am toned and tanned and enjoy role play, OTK spanking and strap. I am not into extreme play,I'm very easy going,patient,respectful of limits and ideal for first timers..25 yrs. +,discretion assured..I can host in discreet home or visit..pics upon reply... If your feeling naughty and desire some proper spanks,with no worries..let me know. ss So, I looked through the personal ads here on Sagacity and quite frankly, it looks like a bit of a sausage fest, more males than females. Ever the optimist however, I'm writing this posting. Lots of you know me, some of you fear me, some probably don't like me but that is their problem. Anyhow, I'm looking for an adventurous height and weight proportional female submissive female who wishes to explore the dark world. I have a pretty varied and competent skill-set and can be as evil as you dare. I'm respectful of limits of course but if you want to go a long way into the darkness, I can be a very good guide. Drop me a line if you wish/dare. I live on the mainland but know there are ferries that cure that little problem for both of us. So, there you have it, Dboat is on the prowl, care to take that chance??? Db Whenever I've been a naughty girl I know that I need a long, hard OTK spanking. It's time that I find that disciplinarian in my life as it's been far too long since I was taught a good lesson. Attractive 40yr old BBW in Victoria. Will travel a little up island to get my punishment. Discression essential and experience important. I'm not necessarily looking for a sexual relationship but am open to what comes my way. M Good Day eh I am experienced male sub that would like to meet dommes or couples for some extreme fun - I am open to most things and like to be tortured and dominated - I can't think of any thing else to say except give me a message bb Hello, I am a very fit,toned and tanned dude,construction worker type. I am looking for an experienced dom who enjoys discipline and sexual reward..I have a fair amount of time under my belt,but have not found an ideal gent who is sexy somewhat,masculine and expectant,enjoys being pleased S SWF with Dominant streak seeks submissive male in Victoria area for long term fun and learning. I am very new to this lifestyle and prefer someone who has none to a little experience so that we may explore together without preconceived notions or expectations. I am 45, single, a little extra weight, non-smoker. You should be non-smoking, clean, employed, intelligent, 40-50 yrs old and single. I am interested in flogging, spanking, some bondage perhaps – but not into cross dressing, needles or extreme pain. Please apply to s I am a 55 yr old male who would like to meet someone who would enjoy giving me a sound bare-bottom spanking. Experience is not necessary. If you would like to practice on a willing sub get in touch with me d slave seeks Master 51 year old BBW seeks Master. 5'6", 240 lbs, brunette, soft submissive appearance, average looks, scottish heritage. i am educated, intelligent, artistic, and have many of the attributes of a little girl mixed with the yielding sensual slave. need a Master who understands this and has that feeling of protectiveness and desire to nurture. i respond to loving sadism but i am not an edge player and not into the extremes. i am looking for a true meeting of souls and a man of depth, character, integrity and complexity. i am real and need this on a really deep level, but will only be with my true counterpart who also yearns for his true counterpart. i do not move quickly and do not submit unless my trust has been earned the old fashioned way... with time, trust and respect. sd Looking for a girl to watch me punishing my husband W4W, 39 years old (Victoria/Oak Bay). With his loving consent of course, we are a couple who believe a heartfelt confession followed by a good long (and sometimes hard) bathbrush spanking keeps a relationship bubbling along. Not for everyone but it works for us. Now we'd like to add a little spice to an already hot mix. We'd like a pretty girl to witness my sweetie's confession and correction. (You can help with the correction if you'd like but that is not at all required.) It would be about an hour of your time. Likely just after work. A glass of bubbly Italian wine, a bit of smoked salmon served by the dear man hoping to gain a slight reprieve...and then to work. Write with your expectations, experience - if any - and a picture. If we clicked this could be a weekly event. It certainly is for him :) J I'm a 28-year-old bi-sexual woman in Victoria looking for a dominant male to teach me how to be the perfect slave!** I'm open to most forms of punishment, with the exception of anything to do with feces, as I would still like to feel sexy and sensual during my punishment. I take good care of myself. I'm 5'3 115 pounds and would consider my body type to be fit. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and have a very pleasant AGREEABLE personality. I physical attraction is a must, and I expect clear pictures, and will produce the same in return. Best of luck in your search. We are an attractive couple. She is 42 Blonde Beautiful and very well taken care of. She is not Bi-sexual but curious. She is a switch...can be a dom or a sub. He is 32 and is very attractive. He is also a switch. We are looking for either a male or female or couple... in or around our ages who is a SUB that would like to pleasure us and in turn be used and rewarded with our sharing of erotic satifying times. We are nonsmokers, drug free, and disease free and would expect the same. We are very discreet and also expect the same. We are interested in pleasure being had by all. You wont be disappointed. Please send replies to D I am a submissive male, under 60, single, slight, healthy, retired, with own transportation, living near Duncan. Interested in bondage, imprisonment, enslavement and sexual assault. Attached at eagersub.yolasite.com is a script of possible encounter. Please send me your instructions ES Male, 24 seeking kinky relationship with a female around my age. I would love to find an occasional partner to explore my ever-growing interests in the areas of: bondage, toys, piercings, teasing, roleplaying, etc. I'm open to just about anything.
I am 5'8", slim build, warm smile, and pretty new to the Victoria area. My experience in kinky relationships is minimal, so if you could find it in your heart to take me under your wing and show me the ropes, I have many ways of showing you my deepest gratitude (up to and including my excellent baking and sexual skills). I look forward to exploring the physical and emotional joys of a kinky relationship! R We're a good looking fit 50M/36F inexperienced couple looking for a gentle sub F to hang with on the boat, hot tub, and be our friend to begin exploring some alternatives. Western Communities area.A My wife is very much a sub and I am naturally a dom, but I need some help with specific techniques (I don't want to lessen the chances of getting a lot out of this aspect of our relationship, or lessen her experience). I would really appreciate if there's a local dominatrix in the area that may be willing to give me some pointers with techniques, and perhaps even some interactive lessons with my wife. Thanks in advance!
nb Erotic service sub or switch wanted. Looking for bi female who wishes to service domestic and sexually to agreeable settings a bi woman, looking for someone who can massage without being afraid of getting carried away, would be a plus if she could do play piercings and not afraid to administer punishment, would be great for a switch, a plus would be if you would service other side of relationship, strait male as well, offer also good for male sub, who would only play with the female of the couple, complete sexual service not necessary, just prepared to be naked, admired, play-friendly and provide relaxation and help. Waiting Couple NEEDLE ME Please. Looking for person/s willing to do needle play on this willing sub in her home or elsewhere, any time and as much as you wish , so for those of you needing practice or wanting to perhaps take pictures of your art work, your model is waiting, p.s. willing to do same for cuttings etc. A Salut, I am 25 and a hard-working student by day and a devilish sexual enthusiast by night. Pursuing an open-minded lady to indulge my vulgar fantasies and complement my naughtyness, and in turn, hers. But let me be modest, I am not a Bar star or a Player, nor do I frequent the bedrooms of Victoria’s ladies on a regular basis. However, I’m not “fishing” to wed, as my studies encompass the majority of my daytime schedule. I would like to meet somebody who shares this lifestyle, and searches for a NSA relationship. That said, Discreteness is a must, as this island isn’t that big! Secondly, I really appreciate good hygiene, as do most. I enjoy the hunt for that special someone. I seek a woman who believes in herself and is not afraid to express her true sensuality. Age, body type, ethnicity; none of these shallow traits dissuade me. Foreplay, toys, multiple positions, inside/outside, lite bondage, the list continues on and on. I’m young, adventurous, open to new opportunities, exploring, being shown a trick or two, and just pushing each other’s erogenous buttons. If you desire to have fun, to assert your inner naughty side, and above all else, enjoy pleasurable good-times, give me a ring (an email). Salut My search is for a woman of good character that is sincere, genuine, honest, adventurous and with a wicked imagination, but mixed with intelligence, intensity, and a desire to be mine. You must be willing to accept and respect my limitations while I continue to grow and expand these limitations with you while I find my comfortable submissive place. I have a deep desire and need to serve, not just in a sexual context but to be completely submissive and I enjoy the many flavors of BDSM. I am open to negotiation on any aspects of D/s roles including domestic servitude as well as other areas which can be discussed as our trust grows. I am interested in the psychological and physical aspects of the lifestyle. Although I have experienced many of the aspects of BDSM over the last few years, it has been on the soft side, simply because I wish not to throw myself into a bad situation with someone I do not know well. I have been careful not to allow my submission to cloud my judgment on what is safe while I seek a Domme who is compatible and wishes to join me on my journey. I am looking forward to increasing the intensity of the physical and emotional aspects in a controlled setting, a relationship that is built on mutual trust, safety and a desire for continued exploration. I am inquisitive, passionate, intelligent and creative. Quiet times include working on my novel of short stories and poetry, other times I will be working on my musical interests, as a musician of 35 years. Obedient, lustful, playful and fun-loving but not a SAM. I am a bit of an exhibitionist and passionate about whatever I undertake to do. I am in my mid 40's, not married or in a relationship and have no children. R Hullo. I'm 22-years-old, female, bisexual, mostly sub and fairly unexperienced, however I've always had that naughty side that wanted to try all those dirty little things I'm told about, I just need an open minded partner to play with me. I would like a "friend with benefits" someone that I can see more than once, develop a friendly environment with, and who can be fairly forceful or aggressive with me. Interests include, though are not limited to; toys, bondage, piercings, teasing... Anyways, looking for someone around Victoria, nearer to my age, male, female, or couple. J I'm a 37-year-old male Dom looking for the right sub or slave to strike up a good friendship with and build a relationship. I am a local professional with dark hair, brown eyes and an olive complexion. I am 5’ 10’’ and 190 pounds. I prefer slim to athletic builds and I enjoy many facets of the life style. I am looking to make friends here and not just strictly looking for a sub or slave to serve me. I would like to create a circle of friends with similar interests. Please drop me a line. 37Dom Hello! Tall, attractive, 42-year-old male seeking kink friendly woman for dating and friendship. Looking for 80% normal 15% mischievous, 5% freak who is into role playing and alternate sexuality experiences. Hope to hear from you! J Hi, I'm a 21-year-old looking for foot fetish fun with a female of any age!activities would include tickling, massages, etc. and anything of your choice! G Attractive, well-educated, and sophisticated gentleman (61 years old) seeks a mature adventurous couple (over 50 preferred) wishing to add some spice to their lives. Discretion is guaranteed and must be reciprocal. Also interested in meeting a mature, lonely lady who feels neglected and would like an attentive and caring man in her life. Mail to: B Thirty-something, 130 lb female looking to
explore the Dom side of myself with other single females only (lesbian, bi-, or tranny that is feminine looking). I have very little
experience, but excited to learn more and explore in a safe respectful
environment. We'll have to built somewhat of a friendship/friends
with benefits so the environment feels safe. Prefer if you're new to
this like I am, but willing to experiment with someone that has
experience and that is patient. I live in mid-Vancouver Island area. Mail to: S I'm looking to further explore my newly unveiled bi side along with my much longer established kinkiness, and meet up with a kinky couple, preferably with a Domme woman and submissive bi-male, or switches would be OK, too. I'm a mid 50s, single, clean cut, fit, healthy, attractive man. sd I am an attractive and polite 24-year-old male with a very strong desire to be pegged by a woman. I have never tried it before but it is my number one fantasy and I am desperate to try it. If you are an open-minded female of any age or look willing to try this with me please get in contact and make my fantasy come true! Thank you very much. pegging We're a young (she's 23, he's 29), healthy, D&D free Dom/Switch couple located in the heart of James Bay in Victoria, BC. We've been together just over a year and a half and recently we've decided that we would like to reach out to the novice kink community in Victoria as kinky mentors. She is submissive to her Master, dominant or submissive to others depending who they are. She has been involved in the kink community almost 10 years. Her has been involved almost 8 years now and is very much a sadistic dominant. We both enjoy sports, theater and casual nights at home reading, watching Family Guy and enjoying a cool breeze on the balcony. What we are looking for is beyond a slap and tickle once a month. We would like to have others (singles or couples) come into our lives, to share in our kinks and hobbies and to be a friend to us both. In exchange for this friendship we would offer what experience we do have - and he many experiences we have to come. You must be physically fit (we both enjoy physical activity greatly), D&D free, SS&C or RACK conscious and have a positive, no-drama-llama attitude towards life. If you'd like to just have coffee, we can do that as well. We're both available for friendship on any level. If this has piqued your interest, feel free to drop us a note bt We're new to the Victoria area and are looking to meet some new and exciting people involved in the scene. Very busy professionals but we are both in town next weekend. A Dom couple, we hope to find others (m, f, couple) with at least a couple of years experience. Age is not important---attitude is. We both enjoy bondage and clamping, ass play and discipline, role play, group and parties we are open minded and seek others that enjoy life the way we do. If this sounds interesting to you, please drop us a line. Serious inquiries only. Discretion and SSC a must. jjk Neglected footpet is looking for a female "footness". I am a submissive male in my mid 30's looking for a dominant female that enjoys having her feet worshiped, pampered, respected and cared for. My face belongs at your feet at all times as I will show you true devotion at all times. A collar and leash is highly recommended. footpet A 27-year-old male, living in Victoria (Cedar Hill Cross area), looking to learn the ropes of being a sub. Looking for more gentle, female dom so I can ease into things, and would like to be humiliated a bit. I would like to be taken advantage of with a strap-on. I am not a stickler for age or looks. I am about 5'9", large build. I am not a "pretty person", but I'm not ugly somewhere around average. I'm just looking for something ongoing so that I can get several lessons in vg I am hoping to explore the BDSM lifestyle and I would love to meet with someone friendly, patient and knowledgeable. I'm 36 years old, Caucasian, brown hair, 5'8", green eyes, looking to learn how to be a switch. I'm kind, intelligent, have good communication and I am a good listener. I am physically healthy and free of STDs. I'd like to find a female around my age who'd be interested in meeting for coffee and discussing the BDSM Lifestyle and to educate me. Please email me if you have any questions, would like to see pictures, or are interested. Thanks so much. iggy Hi, I am a single white male that is bi and a submissive/bottom. I am in Duncan and looking for that strong Mistress or Master to use me as they wish. I am new to all of this but willing to meet and do as you say. I do like bondage, some pain (like to have that expanded), water sports to swallow, swallow cum, leather, whips and canes, like to try electro play, and any other things that you like. I am a nonsmoker, drug free and free of all STDs and HIV neg. So love to meet and see where you can take me with this and have you over me. ils I'm a male who loves to dress up in one of my many maids outfits and serve a dominant
female(s). I'm tall and slim and very submissive when dressed up. Will serve you and do your housework for you. Scrubbing floors on my hands and knees and cleaning bathrooms are my specialties. I'm very obedient and smart, but maids don't have much to say so I'm quiet unless spoken to. Restraints, discipline, humiliation and punishment are what makes a good maid for you. A brisk spanking and corner time helps motivate me to be the maid that you need. I will always curtsy for you to show my admiration for your dominance. I will obey all of your commands. I live in Victoria and am available during most days. LL Single unattached male switch 40 seeking a Single female dom for flogging sessions. I am inexperienced and hoping for someone fun and patient. Looking for judicial style scene. I am good natured and have a sense of humour. SS&C BD I am new to Sagacity, and I live close to Nanaimo, but I do travel down to Victoria on occasion. I am a male in my mid 30s and I would prefer to spend some time with a Dominant Female who would be willing to spend her time with me. I in turn would get on my knees and take whatever she has in store for me. I have some experiece in bdsm (CBT, anal play, medical torture, spanking, just to name a few, and I have found that there is much to explore, so I would like to have my limits tested. I am a 34-year-old woman (always told I look much younger) who is intelligent, passionate, funny and fun, inquisitive, and an enthusiastic newcomer. I have been described as voluptuous, BBW, and zaftig. I have had a lifelong attraction to kink, have had some soft experiences, and am searching for someone to show me the way. I have an interest in impact play, rope work, biting, bondage, toy and ass play, but am most definitely not limited to just these. I am open to any and all suggestions from the person I am with. My intention is to more fully explore my sexuality, sensuality, and my love of kink in a safe, sane, and consensual manner. I am healthy, do not smoke, drink or do drugs, and am disease free. I would prefer a woman to help guide me, but would consider a man as well, if we connect. I would not describe myself as strictly heterosexual, but rather as someone who is open to possibilities. I live in Nanaimo, and sometimes travel to the mainland. If I interest you, please contact me so we can chat, converse, perhaps meet, and see where we go from there. A I'm an experienced Dominant Male in Vic, been in the lifestyle for a long while now, but am now recently single and looking to explore more locally. I would like to find a nice SINGLE sub lady to attend munches, play parties and a good friendship with. Also I would ideally like to find a local submissive to explore the chances of a Long term D/s relationship...but one Dom step at a time. Must be honest, real, not into games or drama. Dont be shy - drop Me a line and start with just chatting, and see where it goes from there. V Hi there. I'm new in town--just starting university in January--and I was hoping to explore this whole...lifestyle, I suppose, with someone friendly, patient and knowledgeable. I'm 24 years old, caucasian, brown hair, gray eyes, 5'9, 190 lbs, looking to learn how to sub and then move into domming, once I understand the basics and become comfortable with the whole experience. I'm kind, intelligent, quirky and geeky, looking for someone who appreciates those things. I am physically healthy and free of STDs. Ideally, I'd like to find a female around my age (within, oh, 20 years or so) who'd be interested in irregular sessions where she can teach me the ropes (ha ha) and go on from there. Males are alright as well. Please email me if you have any questions, would like to see pictures, or are interested. Thanks so much. J Well, I fantasize about being the filthy little girl whose entire reality revolves around pleasuring a Mistress. What I lack in experience I make up for in a desire to please. I'm relatively attractive and somewhat intelligent and would love nothing more than to be at the beckoned call of a woman or women within the victoria area. I am 27 and find the psychological aspects of this type of relationship dynamic to be as titilating as the sensational... thus if you want to be worshipped by my tongue, eyes, and mind and are willing to take an eager novice under your wing, please get back to me. Women only please. a I am a man of 50 years old but look like 40. 5'7", 130 lbs, fit, clean, athletic, good looking, no experience in bdsm, very independent. I've dreamt all my life to be trained as a true male slave to be feminized completely and serve you totally. Willing to learn and devote my life for you as a she male slave. Hope to meet a mistress or a mistress she male or anyone who can change me into a true she male sub. I'm bi. c Hello - I'm a BBW sub (singe/36) looking for a Dom to explore the kinky lifestyle with and to help me discover my likes and dislikes. We would need to connect on various kinky and vanilla levels because I need a Dom that I can talk with and respect. On that point, please be older than me because I find it difficult to follow someone younger than me. I'm shy and quiet but definitely have a wild side underneath. I'm not looking for a long term romantic interest or a one night play but rather someone to help me explore the lifestyle and to show me the ropes (literally). Respect and safe/sane/consensual play are a must as well as discretion. I do have profile on fetlife if you are interested in more about my likes and dislikes. Please be disease and drug free as I am too. k4m Couple looking for submissive female for service. We’re based in Vancouver, so you would travel to us upon occasion – that means you must have a car or be in Vancouver. We’re both dominant, both experienced, and can play it easy or play quite rough. We don’t view ourselves as sadists, but rather kinky sexual sensationalists. You are: intelligent, well rounded, easy to be with, have a great sense of humour and carry a minimum of baggage. You really enjoy submission and giving and would welcome the chance to serve a couple. At a minimum, you need to enjoy sex with both genders, be quite sexual, should be an absolute slut in the bedroom but have class and style outside of the bedroom. You can be any age; we’re not too concerned about your size, though at some point, we all have a cutoff. If you’ve lost your dignity please don’t contact us. We’re not looking for a one off, but we’re also not looking for any commitment. We are loving based, but have high expectations. Forward a picture of you, along with a note telling us of your needs/desires and why you are looking and I assure you of a response. We are both married to other people – our spouses are aware and supportive, though our spouses are not part of this equation. You don’t like that? Don’t contact us. No smoking, D&D free - No men, no couples. TGL Wanted: Hot'n sexy couple to explore my fantasy of a 3some. Are you both clean, sane, in good shape and frisky? I am. Blue eye's, 6'3" and muscular with a swimmers build; I'm 43 and considered handsome; I'd love to spend anafternoon or evening exploring sensuality with another male and female whoare both open minded to both giving and receiving pleasure, hopefully a fewtimes ;) C I am a 37 year old single sub female looking for ongoing exploration with a Dom male. I have limited experience but a life long need. I have limited time availability as I work full time in a demanding job, but would like to have an arrangement bi monthly or monthly to start. I am open minded to things progressing over time. SS&C are a must. L New Dom to Victoria looking to meet men and women in the scene. I’m a 23 year old outgoing and attractive female who’s looking to expand her skills. My Interests and experiences include but are not limited to: foot worship, CTBT, anal play, spanking, role-playing & bondage. Would be pleased to make connections with both subs and doms in the area. If you’re a dom who would be willing to mentor a creative and apt student I would love to talk to you! Thanks in advance. mb I am a 31 year old attractive female sub from Nanaimo looking for an experienced Dom for humiliation and degradation play. I have been into this lifestyle for a long time but not yet have found exactly what i desire. i'm quite extreme, i enjoy pain, bondage, toiletplay, cock worship, anal play, extreme humiliation and degradation. i'm looking for an unattached male, who is under the age of 45. i'm very busy so having someone near nanaimo would be nice. submissive female Two dominant goddess females from Nanaimo looking for bad professional men between the ages of 21-60. We are extremely attractive women aged 27 and 31 who are looking for naughty men who need to be punished and mistreated. We administer spankings, humiliation, sissy punishment, gags, anal abuse, cock and ball torture and much more for bad boys. Whatever your fetish is we will fulfill it. You don't get one of us without the other. We are safe, sane and extremely discreet. We have a cold and dark play dungeon for you to enjoy us in. Please contact us if you can handle it. Two Goddesses Daddy and destiny are seeking a playmate. WYMYN ONLY! We are a committed lesbian couple seeking to enhance our kinky life with a sensual, feminine, voluptuous gurl-toy. If you are a sub looking to explore your kinky side while being pamperd and paddled, we could be the experience you are looking for. Dadanddestiny I am a 43yr old closet very sub curious non passable cd. I'm looking for a domme lady to train me to serve her. I am married and she has no idea about this side of me so discretion is a must. am out of town until mid October but would be interested in coversing online or via email to get to know the domme that is interested. missykdr I am looking for a healthy, single [READ available - not married or in a relationship], attractive, bi fe/male submissive/slave, with no children at home. Between the ages of 35 and 50. (NO CD's, she males or....) BBW a little curvey preferable in females - more defined in males. To train and use, I am sure. for our mutual pleasures. Preferably in and or around the mid-Island area. Any traveling expenses if you are outside of Nanaimo would be on you. I am not speaking of online training. I am only interested in real time. Availability and schedules can be worked out. you need not be trained or mentored by a previous Dominant.you must have a willingness to learn and obey. To be considered and accepted I will need photos and if any, your previous experience in the lifestyle. Also I will need a letter as to why you wish to be My submissive and also tell me why I should even consider you. Limits are and will be respected but also tested periodically. Contact with limits, limitations. availability: MzD mzd I am a 55 year old 6 ft 190 lb clean safe submissive man that is looking for a young Dom top for spanking and bondage training.. I am a novice at this but know .. with the right young man and the right training it would be a good thing to get into..for both of us.. .. Can get into switching too Not looking for a ltr but am looking for some repeat training with the same person so we can develop a trust to push me on my way.. Thanks T I am a very Experienced Dominant Male, single, 46-years-old, non-smoking and stand 5'9". I am in downtown Victoria and seek an adventurous, submissive female. Age, weight and looks are not an issue. I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for approximately 15 years. I am most interesed in bondage and erotic photography. I have all the equipment and toys required to play. I am hoping to find a subby that is willing to consider a collared, long term, romantic, loving relationship that revolves around the BDSM lifestyle. If you are seeking someone and still have not found what you are looking for then, please contact me. Ask yourself this; How long have you sought for that one Master? Why not try me on for size? Victoria_Bound I am a 40yr old MWM new to the idea of playing outside.I have a supportive wife who is giving me the space to grow. I am looking for female, 30-45 years of age, to email, chat and perhaps take things further. My largely unexplored alter-ego is primarily dominant but with some switchy thoughts. This guy thinks a lot about lingerie and the interesting and varied things that can be done with rope. Interested? Curious? It would be great to hear from you. Don I am seeking a mischievous, fun-loving lady who wants to enjoy having a saucy male butt at her disposal for target practice now and then for her personal amusement. I enjoy the mirth and laughter that a woman expresses when she owns and spanks my butt. I also immensely enjoy the CFNM culture that seems to give many women enjoyment and laughter. Leroy I'm a Dominant male in my mid fifties; tall,attractive,creative. I have participated in BDSM activities for many years and have experience with assorted forms of discipline and bondage. I am very interested in the psychological aspects as well as the physical and have been called a "natural Dom" by several experienced subs. My control is subtle, not loud. I like to surprise. I am seeking a female sub who is looking to explore her nature in a safe, discreet situation. She could be a novice or experienced. Encounters could be weekly,bi weekly, monthly and long or short term. If this has caught your attention and you want to know more, send a note and we can fill in the spaces. D I am a young, fairly inexperienced female dom looking to meet playmates of either gender for lessons or play in Victoria. I am looking for subs under 35, little or no experience preferred. Practice makes perfect after all. Kait I am a 20 year old male who is interested in worshipping women's feet in Victoria. W I am a newbie 55 yr old attractive, sophisticated male needing guidance from an experienced domme. I am eager to receive your orders and pledge to obey. ME I am a single, 40 year old novice submissive male seeking a dominant female who is interested in play. I am interested in a variety of power exchange activities. John A 34 year old male and 27 year old female in the Victoria area are seeking several things. We are seeking males, 25 years or less, who must enjoy complete domination by a male. We are seeking young men who are clean (std free) to participate in being dominated by me and told how to pleasure my girl. You must have stamina, the will to submit, and be able to take direction. We have bigger plans in the long run. Overall we hope to find a group of like minded friends. S i am a good looking male submissive in search of a Mistress. i am loyal and wish to serve in any way Mistress desires.malesub Healthy, clean, and decent looking 42 yr old MWM seeks a kinky female who is willing to play, explore, and teach. I am interested in many facets of kink including medical play, electro play and administering some mild corporal punishment. I have been enjoying this lifestyle for 4 years and i am wanting to meet like minded females who are also seeking a safe, sane play partner to enjoy some of the finer things in life. DISCRETION IS A MUST. MWM I AM A 42 YR OLD MWM who has a Mild Kinky side and is living in a VANILLA relationship. I am above average in the looks department and DD free. This is my first time placing a personal ad. I am seeking a MWF who also has a KINKY side and is wanting to share with a like minded individual. I am not wanting to change my life situation just enhance it. Maybe you have a scene you would like to act out or something you want to try and are worried about what your other half might think; or maybe you just need a KINKY change because things are getting to be the same and you just need something differant and want to feel that special Little Twitch between your legs again. Maybe you've been a Bad girl and need a little over the knee spanking. Have you been thinking what it might be like to have a one time NSA erotic encounter? Serious Female enquiries only please. NSA i am a submissive male who is looking for a dominant female that i can serve and learn from. I am very open minded. If you're at all interested then i'm looking forward to chatting with you and hopefully meeting. J I am a 40 year old Victoria male. I am attractive, honest, fit, with a great sense of humour and am looking for excitement and adventure. I look great in a suit or a pair of jeans and I am new to the scene and love to explore. I am seeking Female playmates that are into kink, toys, fetish (hint nylons/stockings make me crazzzzy). I am very easy to get along with and am unlike the majority or the males out there. I am also an amateur photographer and masseur. I am unselfish as my need is too make all of your wildest fantasies and desires come true. Let's meet, you won't be disappointed I promise. G Looking for a sexy and dominant minded woman to explore domme/male sub dynamics within an ongoing relationship. I'm tall, single, mature and employed professionally. I have lived on the fringes of the bdsm scene for some time. I am looking for a partner or play partner who is cerebral, interesting, creative, comfortable with femsupremacy and interested in light bondage, psychological control and humiliation. I am willing to learn and explore. My other interests include hiking, music, politics and history. submale I am an honest sub looking to please a genuine Mistress. I am a new sub/slave looking to learn more and more about my submissive side and i need the right Mistress to put me through my paces. I can assure any Mistress out there that i am sincere and will do my best to serve, honour and obey her. I want my pain threshold to be tested, in fact broken each time. This male slave finds the days are filled with quietness as the leash to his collar lays silent. I yearn for the sound of a true Dominant Female's Boots as she walks so elegantly towards him, as her Booted heel touches the ground where he is kneeling to await her superior prescence. He wishes to have his mind, body, and soul ruled by the superiority of a Dominant Lady and wishes never to be able to fully escape those urges, those thoughts,those teachings. The sincere and genuine hope is a Lady might have the compassion and interest to get to know this slave,and maybe mold him into a specimen worthy of Her and Her life. i believe it is my duty to reward his Lady with loyalty and obedience for allowing him to serve as Her slave. As a follower of female dominance and supremacy I will crawl to kiss the feet of my Lady,dreaming of the time when Her hand touches my flesh and then commandingly snaps my leash. I appreciate the time you have taken to read this profile and hope to hear from you soon.Take care to ALL Superior Women. slaveGeorge I am a 27 year old male who is interested in being a sub/slave/trainee. I am very much into total bondage, gags, hoods, latex, rubber, butt plugs, diapers, role playing, you name it! I am looking to meet with anyone who is interested in being my master, teacher, trainer, or just looking to have a play session. I am a bit shy. Hope to hear from you soon! Diaper Lover I am a married white male 56yrs old in a non physical but happy marrage. I am looking for a dominant lady who would like to get together once in a while for discreet fun. I am into bondadge,strap-ons, and more. I am fairly new to the scene but would like to experience new fun things. Please be patient as I do not have regular computer access. New I'm a highly intelligent, very creative (writer/poet/musician), happy and
healthy Dominant Male in my late 40's. I am seeking a female who is excited
to explore all her sensual and sexual capacities and interests. I live in Victoria.
B L Gent looking for a reasonably attractive lady or ladies, age 19 to 60 who might enjoy the nudist lifestyle. I've been a nudist in my own quiet way for for more years than I care to admit. I simply enjoy finding a secluded beach and enjoying nature without textiles! I am fortunate to have a well equipped cruiser which makes it easy to go to secluded beaches or anchorages and enjoy nature! I'm a safe and sane SWM, a N/S, S/D and no other bad habits. Love to hear from you! Nature Lover An exceptionally fit, athletic 45 year old male, 150 lbs, 5'10'' is seeking to be humiliatated by a female in front a a female audience. Sincere, intelligent, authentic. Brad Are you a sexy sub, with a domestic side? We are a very hot professional couple living in Victoria looking for a petite and pretty domestic to serve us. You will definitely be rewarded for a job well done. Appropriate uniform will be provided.
C&L A retired educator, 62, living in a vanilla marriage in Victoria, is looking
for a naughty lady who knows she is occasionally overdue for a good spanking
and/or strapping from her father figure or other male role model. Interested in
some punishment to wash away your sins? Contact Balinmaster PLEASE BE FOR REAL! I am looking for a man…. an exceptional man, preferably tall, muscular, and over 48. He should be intelligent and possess integrity and a wonderful sense of humor. I am interested in someone who is skilled, owns s/m equipment, and understands how to use it. The mind is a wonderful thing, but I am not looking for something that is cerebral only as the physical is equally important to me. I enjoy a man who looks as sexy in a suit as he does in blue jeans...and he will adore being with a feminine, classy lady who loves to share her masochistic side with the right partner. This man will also be a gentleman, a romantic, and will cherish the idea of sexual monogamy. He will be looking for a relationship that encompasses love, lust, intense play, and will not necessarily want a live in relationship, but would like to spend lots of time together. I live in a suburb of Vancouver, B.C., am 57 years old, and this lifestyle is a passion for me! I want to be with someone who also LIVES it, as opposed to fantasizing about it. A D/s or M/s relationship is also a possibility with the right partner. I am a bottom when I play and I have no interest in switching, so please be an EXPERIENCED TOP. I am interested in serious and honest replies only.Beverley YOUNG PERVERTED SENIOR SEEKING SERIOUS SPANKING PARTNER M or F, Bi or Gay, TS or TVG. Must be willing to give and take. Can provide safe, sure and discreet "hideaway", or visit respondent. Please, no pros. Must be mutually consensual. Pictures available.Larry 55-YEAR-OLD TATTOOED, PIERCED, BEARDED, LONG HAIRED DUDE in the Victoria
area would like to meet a funky lady who doesn't like long walks on the beach. I would rather play fun and crazy games with you instead. And no, I don't own a motorcycle but I am told that I look a little like Jerry Garcia. I have been both top and bottom with a lady friend more than once or twice and I am open to both ideas. I dislike coffee shops with a passion so let's meet for a real drink so that you and I can decide what we are going to be.Bob My name is Michael. I am a 26-yr-old, 5'9" 155 pd, BROWN HAIRED, BLUE EYED, BI-SEXUAL smoking male. I am looking for some one to "break-in". I prefer to dominate and please but I am willing to switch on occasion. I prefer women but I swing both ways. I listen to heavy rock bands such as Kmfdm, and Nine Inch Nails. My favorite t.v. show is Robot Chicken. My favorite movies are Rocky Horror Picture Show, Pink Floyd's The Wall, and Heavy Metal. My favorite spice is curry. I am an artist, poet. musician, and philosopher. I enjoy stimulating conversations and friendly debate. I am a romanticist and enjoy wining and dining with dinner and dancing. I am open minded and adventurous, willing to try new things. If you are interested get back to me.Michael EMPTY COLLAR Missing and presumed lost: one much loved subby Lady, separated when winds of time and circumstance changed directions. Have you seen her? Could you BE her? Description: loving, soft, gentle, obedient, very feminine; willing, able and keen to take orders; insatiable for the feelings one gets from nails on skin; teeth markings everywhere. Longs to kiss and be kissed; stroke and be scratched; squeezed until life has passed beyond ownership. Anyone fitting this description, or believe they're able to fill such a collar may write. Mphlye SHAWNIGAN SUBMISSIVE, NEW AND AVAILABLE I am a very youthful single male of 54 yrs. I’m 5’10”, 215 lbs, spiky salt and pepper hair, goatee and hazel eyes. Would say that I am Bi-curious with some experience, completely open-minded and very respectful of others’ well being and privacy. I would love to meet a Dominant Female, Couple, Male, T.V., T.G (not necessarily in any particular order) that would enjoy training me to serve them, or simply using me as a punishment item for their leisurely enjoyment. I would also enjoy meeting other submissives of any persuasion for fun playtimes and friendly support and socializing. I live in a new cottage with hot tub overlooking the Lake, and am able to freely and privately entertain small and intimate get-togethers. I enjoy being on the receiving end of the Cat, and love the slinky sensation of Lingerie…if you think I may be of interest and useful to you please do drop me a line.Andy If you are like me and happen to be HOPELESSLY ATTRACTED TO SADISTS, I find that I love being pushed towards anything I find icky or scary. I want to push every boundary I've ever had and live to cross every line I've drawn. To give you a small glimpse about what that means, I want to "prove" my devotion and love and have you get off on my tears. My goal here is to get me to really think about what might be asked of me as a submissive and to get me to think about what my reaction to being asked to do something I find icky or scary. I need to be prepared. Part of that preparation is taking a great deal of time in getting to know my potential Mistress, knowing what she expects from me, knowing what I expect from my Mistress, and above all else to take it slow. I want be very honest about any fears I may have and why they are fears. If you choose me to enter into a relationship with you I must be certain it is something I can handle. Especially if it is a long term relationship you are searching for. You must expect me to play on the edge and must expect that I will be prepared to have my buttons and boundaries pushed. You will go down a neat little checklist and choose many if not all tasks I find icky or scary that you believe will not cause me harm. tim tim HEY LITTLE MISSY Have you ever wanted to be taken control of? Do you want to be tied to a chair and made to watch a dirty couple do nasty things to each other? Does the thought of this make your heart beat faster and your thighs quiver? Then we have an opportunity for you. We want you as our pet! We are tall, sensual, BDSM leather switches. Intend on being spanked, flogged, teased and denied, bound and used (sexual limits will be negotiated) Doesn't that sound special? (always safe, sane and consensual) Our body types are 6'5"\thin man and 6'1"/average woman. We want your lusty, uninhibited, submissive self to come out to play with us! female onlyF&S I AM A DOM who has a deep, commanding firm voice which by itself, you will find to be a very powerful disciplinary and teaching technique (I call it Mastering with the mind) who seeks a real time sub/playmate/partner. I have some ten years of experience in this lifestyle and you will find some of my play toys to be quite different and exciting….I am a youthful looking 60ish, 6’1 tall; fit and slender male with a full head of salt/pepper hair (yes, its all my own) and have blue/green eyes, which change with the colors of the season….I am into many physical activities (walking; hiking; sailing; camping; working out and visiting the gym 4X a week) and have been athletic all of my adult life which has kept me in good shape…I love mental, spiritual, philosophical and cultural pursuits, and have produced several programs for University theatre and a Costa Rican Radio station. Have traveled to Europe; the Americas; Hong Kong; Caribbean & the Orient…eat and cook natural organic foods, attend opera, live theatre, musical concerts, movies, visit museums, do physical exercise, lift weights and am passionate about whatever I undertake to do while being casual in my attire (except when I dress up in leather for play)…I am an experienced; skillful; sensual; and virile man, and not long ago, received the bronze medal at a swim; bike; run Triathlon. I love to be creative with my voice (hence, I am into verbal Domination), hands for fisting; spanking; and pussy whipping (yes, I’m told by those who have tried it with me, that it’s a huge turn on), long fingers (for those hard to reach places:); tongue and mouth. I also possess a mischievous and playful sense of humor. I am an oral aficionado and love to pleasure and "taste" (the wetter, the better) my partner (an oxymoron for a Dom?) to completion. I am also an anal erotic that loves to look at; play with; penetrate; and spank your derrière...I have made some wonderful friends (to this day) with the submissives I’ve met over the years and have found love in this lifestyle that was deep; caring and nurturing for both and yes, I do have a great family life to boot. I am a single (divorced), unattached, well traveled, financially/emotionally secure, street smart and university educated New York City born and bred male who knows what he wants in life…I maintain residences in both Victoria and Pt Townsend, WA and spend time in Fla and Vegas due to family and biz interests. I have had four careers; presently active in a management position, and have been successful in both business and personal pursuits… I have been a leader all of my life and find I cannot be in a "plain vanilla" relationship. Some have called me "Daddy", others, a Dom, and then there are a select few who have called me Master,..But first and foremost, I am always a gentle-man who does not define his strengths through the weakness of others and believes and follows the SS&C credo that any stand up person in this lifestyle will understand and uphold. And yes, I have sub friends who will attest to that! Now, how many Doms have you met on line who are willing to provide references :)….I am not a "player" and in fact, have had only a few l/t relationships and they were mutually rewarding ones at that…This lifestyle is not about sex and intercourse, but about erotica, playfulness, sensationalism, and sensuality brought about by the pleasure of a sub’s willingness to serve her Dom/Master which is a pleasure shared by the Dom and his loved submissive. And if that doesn't compute for you, read the book "The Story of O" and you will get my drift…I am looking for an educated or “street” smart, obedient, fun loving, playful, submissive female who either knows what she wants, or is open to learning and experimenting with a experienced Dom and is comfortable with who she is. I'm looking for a relationship that appears to the outside world as encompassing both kink (I call it “enlightenment”) and vanilla seamlessly, with one taking precedence over the other when in the venue of (my) choice...Someone who can communicate beyond one sentence and yet have a nurturing; deferential attitude even when we might be in disagreement. One who would like to "dress" for me and enjoy doing things (I am NOT a couch potato)…She will be made to feel safe, secure and cared for and enjoy many cultural, physical, mental, and travel opportunities. I want a woman who enjoys anal & oral play, along with breasts, nipple and clit restraints and toys for "pleasurable" pain, and spankings. She must love to please and be a bit of an exhibitionist who will be my nasty, sexy slut in the bedroom, and my feminine female sub friend/companion/lover when not. While I am a Dom, I am a gentle one. However, this lifestyle it is NOT a part time game with me. I can't turn off my Dom personality when I leave the bedroom any more then you can turn off being a female submissive. It's either in your heart of hearts and part of your "DNA" or you are playing games. However, it does mean I am a Dom and you are a sub and there are certain protocols which come with those titles. This can and will be explored further…While I am not looking for "hard" body types (I prefer the soft, feminine look), I do expect the one who I get involved with to have some form of “discipline” about their appearance physically and to want to look good for me when we go out or play in. And that's something you can expect from me as well... I will send pics upon request, and will expect the same in return from you ..Write me and let’s see how we communicate...You just might find someone new and exciting! DR I am a 30 y/o NOVICE MALE SUB that is eager to enter the BDSM world and become a slave. While I am a novice I have explored the realm of BDSM on the Internet for approximately 10 years. During this time I have been using Alt.com off/on, chatting in BDSM chat rooms, and learning all I can by surfing the web and conversing with others involved in this wonderful lifestyle. I'm a new resident of Victoria, BC and I hope to soon experience r/l. I think about this lifestyle all the time and becoming a r/l slave is something that I need to achieve happiness. There was a time when I felt uncomfortable about my submissive nature, but I have now come to grips with who I am and nothing would make me happier than to belong to a Mistress who controls my life. I am fully aware of what a slave is and I am eager to become part of a Mistress/slave relationship. I do not view this as a game – I take this very seriously and I am not looking to "play". Ultimately, I am seeking a Mistress in a 24/7 relationship. One that I will love more than anything in this world and put her needs before my own or anything else. I am an intelligent individual that offers a high level of adaptability, strong work ethic, self-discipline, and a sense of humor. I am not a doormat and I am a very neat/tidy (perfectionist) person. To the right Mistress, I offer love, devotion, obedience, and a strong desire to belong and be controlled. Sincere Submissive Greetings - I consider myself as an experienced, well-disciplined and sensual Dominant who can play soft or hard as the desire or need arises. An unattached bachelor (real one, having never been down the aisle), I just relocated to Victoria, BC at the end of April. I stand a shade over 5'10", with brown eyes and hair (with the inevitable encroachment of grey), clean shaven, and sans tattoos or body piercings. Tipping the scales at about 235 lb (I do the gym thing about 3-4x week), I am safe, healthy, clean, record- and drug-free, coupled with being gentle, lusty, passionate, humourous and loyal. I have been a discreet Dominant practitioner of the lifestyle for just over 17 years, having enjoyed real-time experience exploring and sharing BDSM with both novice and experienced female submissive companions. I seek to meet a sincere, mature-minded and genuine female submissive in and around the Victoria/Vancouver Island, BC area - someone who deeply desires to explore, experience and share both erotic and sensual BDSM (bringing to life her submissive fantasies) with the eventual goal of entering into a rich relationship (hopefully developing into one of long-term/permanence). A dedicated believer in SSC, I am creative, caring and playful, yet equally strict and demanding when necessary. (Still, all limitations will be respected). While I love to guide, coax and encourage my sub in directions both new and exciting to her, I am not, however, resistant to using various creative and necessary behavioural motivation when her performance is not up to expectation. Nevertheless, I am not focused only on employing pain or punishment: my sub, my lady, is someone most precious to me, and when she pleases me, she is lovingly rewarded and pampered. I so desire to find a true lady of substance and stability (intellectually and emotionally): someone with whom I can share laughter, share secrets, and depend on - sincere, loyal, mature, honest, sensuous, witty, adventurous, naughty (at the appropriate times). As my submissive, she walks beside me, arm in arm - submissive, yes, but still my equal and counter-balance in our magical relationship. She is not property or chattel to be owned (well, more or less...lol). What I ask of my sub is that she always looks for ways to please me and loves her successes, which is exactly what I will do for her in return. I wish to clarify that D/s is just one facet of me and certainly not the axle around which my life revolves: my life is both regular and balanced, and I expect that my sub would wish to be a major part of and participant in that life. I would also hope she would want me to fill that same role in her life, too. While what we may share privately between us is thrilling, I would still ensure that her reputation in the vanilla world is never compromised. All I ask is that you be a lady, be real, be sincere, intelligent, intense, sensual, willing, exceptional, submissive, and desire to be mine. If this passage stirs your interests and your passions, then I invite you to write me. K
or K I am a SINGLE MALE SLAVE who seeks a strong and demanding Mistress who not only yearns, but takes great pleasure in, the discipline and domination of her slave. As a slave, I have a deep desire....a need to serve, worship, and obey my Mistress at all times without question or hesitation. It may sound strange that another human would want to be owned and controlled, but for those who have an appreciation for the D/s way of life it's easily understood, for I serve at her pleasure knowing she has control and ownership of myself.I am new to all of this and i am willing to learn all that i can. Thank you. G i am a 44 year old attractive and submissive male i am very obediant and live in Courtenay. i do travel to Victoria often and i am hoping to meet a dominant female to worship. i am a smoker, a non drinker, and i like golden showers, dildos, whips, riding crops, cbn torture, body and boot worship, forced feminization, cock sucking, and sissy maid. i am seeking a dominant female in her thirties to fifties, preferably a non drinker and good humoured. If this appeals to you then i would love to hear from you! Gordon A 45 year old Submissive male seeks a dominant woman for ocassional meetings. I am clean,discreet and DD free and expect the same.Your looks are not important. bob A fit 45 year old from Duncan would like to link up with a dominant or two, or someone who can enjoy both dom and sub.Marco I am a 38 year old young looking and fit Island man. I am 5'11'/185lbs, new here but very experienced. I am considered handsome by some and am looking for a petite woman in her 30's with gorgeous feet and a taste for shoes. You are interested in being in control but don't like the heavier side of the scene, like humiliation. You want a strong man, a companion, who can bow down behind closed doors when need be. I like a drink now and then and do not do drugs of any kind and hope for same. I have many, many skills to offer. Casual to serious. Let's have fun!
Island Man i'm a 22 year old female sub i am inexperienced except for all the bondage
erotica that i've read since i was 13. i'm 5'8/150, 34D boobs and believe my weight is distributed in a complimentary manner but would be prepared to make an effort to change for the right dom. i have a college degree but do not have a good job at the moment. i'm looking for someone who wants to treat me like a princess by day and a slut by night. i want to be dominated, i want to be controlled, i want to be used. Some pain is good, too much pain is not okay. i need someone that i can respect as i can't submit to someone that i don't. do you think you might fit my requirements? Karen Physically fit 23 year old male slave is expanding his horizons to include service oriented slavery. Would like to serve as housekeeper/cook/whatever helps
make Your life easier. Would also be willing to serve as a assistant for anyone who has a small or home based business as well. I offer no strings housework to help me improve my slavery and also welcome any suggestions or ideas to help me in my journey. Slave I am a 34 YEAR Dominant Male I am 5’9, and 170 Lbs. I’m looking for Submissive/ Gorean type females in the Victoria area & Possibly Lower mainland. Ideally you would be under 5’8 with heels on, bi-sexual, and are looking for a 24/7 r/l relationship. I also may require you to relocate. I am new to this lifestyle and, like anybody, have much to learn. I am caring and compassionate and respect boundaries and limitations. I seek an inexperienced Sub/slave or someone experienced who is willing to explore with me. Although I very much enjoy this lifestyle (Note): I am not into extreme pain nor am I really into using someone as a human toilet bowl. If you are serious about the lifestyle and like to be tied up, flogged, and used for sex then please drop me a line. I would very much enjoy someone that was interested in group play possibly adding others to a 24/7 family. Dominant Male Hi! My name is Daniel and i am 28, very attractive and curious.I would like to meet people who are into golden showers and other perverted fetishes.I am trying to find girls who are into this sort of thing. If you are interested please contact me!Daniel I am in a stable but non-physical marriage and would like to meet a mature (to age 65), lonely and unfulfilled lady for a highly discreet and long term relationship. I'm an attractive semi-retired professional gentleman in my late 50's. I'm 5' 8" and 175 lbs. I am gentle and caring and enjoy giving sensual pleasures to a lady who is equally discreet. If this situation sounds appealing to you, please respond by email so we can ultimately fulfill our mutual interests and needs. Sincerely, Barry WANTED! FEMALE SEDUCTRESS dominant or submissive for an open-minded relationship. I'm a 40's male, athletic, intelligent, handsome and very creative. I have black hair, brown eyes, and am VERY good looking. I have about six months experience in the alternative sex scene. A clean, slender, full-figured, shapely-assed female (20 to 40) is preferred, but a plain looking person will be considered, especially if you are a bit crazy in the head and can act like a true slut. LOL. No experience required. Non smokers preferred. I am a social drinker living in the Okanagan and able to travel. No drugs please. R.J. I'm new to this but know I've waited way too long. I'm a single,clean, white male, with a moustache and dark hair. I'm 6"1, 150 lbs, 42 years of age,(but I've been told I look younger). I have been bi-curious for a very long time and have a strong desire to experience and explore my kinky side but require a partner to share this with. I'm not into s/m or bondage or pain. What I'm ultimately looking for is a slim bi woman to share our interests (and clothes) and find a couple we are comfortable with to enjoy all aspects of life. I have limited experience as far as bi-experience goes but have done oral and masturbation. Not into anal,(At least not at this time). I'm also interested in masturbating with others as well as cross dressing. I love lingerie and tight clothing on myself and others. I'm very open minded to possibilities and would like to find someone in the Victoria area of the Island to share and explore with in a mutually satisfying way. I would really like to be with a Punjab/Hindu or Asian woman, possibly as my soulmate. I'm considerate, intelligent and honest. If this sounds like what you are looking for or can send me in the right direction.Rebecca Leather Lifestyle in Victoria, BC, Canada. I am a 54-year-old, 5'9" tall, Unattached, Straight, Caucasian Dominant Male living in Victoria. The House of Tolmetes is seeking to find "un-owned" women (not collared nor under-consideration) who, of their own free will, honestly and truly desire to enter a life of total servitude. I am a Real Life Master, practitioner of Authority Exchange; consensual, unconditional service providers. I am not seeking D/s, online, Gorean or any other form of role-play. I am not interested in "conditional slavery", this is just another name for D/s role-play. It can be difficult going through the profiles and finding those who are what I seek, but if you feel you may be one to fill a position of property you may write me. Interested slaves should be: a woman or a VERY fem trans-gender, bisexual, intelligent and open-minded, willing to take this serious (but it can also be a lot of fun), willing to trust and be trusted TOTALLY, between 25-50 yrs. of age, clean and std free (this is a big one), patient and flexible, willing to relocate (if necessary), honest. Interested slaves should have: a sense of humor, a good sense of self (NO crazies). Interested slaves should like: to have fun (vanilla or otherwise). Interested slaves must NOT be: married or have dependent children, into any drugs or alcohol (NO druggies or lushes). Interested slaves must NOT have: a criminal record. Some experience is preferred. Have you read Laura Antoniou's We are an adventurous, fun-loving, stable m/f couple from Victoria, seeking one male and one female sub or slave to complete our household. Transgender persons will also be considered. He is 43, Dominant by nature and inclination; a creative, perceptive and sadistic man with over ten years of experience in the lifestyle. She is 28, a beautiful switch, currently in training for collar by her cherished Daddy. She is relatively new to the lifestyle but has, since youth, craved both submission and domination in many of her fantasies. We are seeking initial part-time service leading to an eventual 24/7, TPE situation. Our expectations of both male and female would include domestic service (housekeeping, cooking, grooming, massage, shopping, etc. skills would be highly valued). Both will be used as toys in play, and must have a high degree of tolerance for pain, humiliation and objectification. Our top fetishes include watersports, age play, humiliation, fear, pain, objectification and enforced sexual availability. We enjoy the edgier side of BDSM, and are interested in bondage, exhibitionism, breath play, pony/puppy roleplay, impact play, takedown scenes, speech and eye contact restrictions, cock and pussy worship, electrical play, knife play, blood play, mental bondage, fire play, branding, needle play, obedience training, wax play and more. Limits are scat and children. The male will be expected to endure lengthy periods of enforced chastity. He will not be allowed intercourse with his Domme under any circumstances, but may occasionally be allowed contact with the female sub or slave. He will likely also fall prey to his Domme's fetish for forced bi and feminization. Must look good in a skirt. Expect CBT from time to time.The female will be used for sexual gratification by both her Dom and Domme and must be available for such gratification at all times. If she is obedient and caters to our tastes, she will become the spoiled and favoured property of her owners. If she does not please us, she can expect to be disciplined accordingly.Being as he has many years of experience as a Dom, and she has experienced the trials and joys of submission first hand, both are sensitive the unique emotional and physical challenges of submission. We are never too proud and will offer our compassion and guidance, when it is genuinely needed, to those who serve us. You will be allowed a safeword, and your hard limits will be respected. We may use and abuse you, but ultimately we respect your humanity and the unique gifts you can bring to our life together. We hope to hear from you soon. William&Charlie I'm a 23 year old MALE SWITCH from the island looking for a girl/woman into bondage. i also have a foot fetish. If there's any women out there looking to chat or to play please e-mail me back.snowman Young couple seeking submissive female for servant/maid duties. You must be under 35 and a non-smoker. We are looking for a sub maid who will come and perform various personal tasks for us. Rewards would include humiliation, bondage, toys and whatever your kink may be. All limits respected and a checklist will be required.We live in the Mill Bay area, but are willing to accommodate your transportation needs. A uniform will be provided. kinky kitty I am returning to Island and am SEEKING A DOMME FRIEND AND LOVER for a longterm D/s relationship. I am early 50's tall, considered well above average in appearence, semi-retired, secure, open, honest, loving, affectionate and submissive but not a wimp. Seeking a single dominant woman who wishes a longterm loving relationship, vanilla on the outside but one who is strict and controlling behind closed doors. A woman who enjoys weekends away, good food, wine, exploring different resturants and ethnic foods. If this sounds like you and you are looking for a longterm relationship I would look forward to hearing from you. rba I'm a SINGLE 60 YEAR OLD WIDOWED MALE living alone in the midisland area. I visit Victoria frequently and wish to meet people with similar interests in BDSM. I am slim, very physically active and look much younger than my age. Although I have very limited experience I am a keen learner and have a creative magination. You can find my profile under the handle Cocktie on Alt.com. Looking forward to making new friends with Sagacity. Richard I'm looking to migrate to the Island later this year and I seek an experienced or curious female, either submissive or dominant to teach/train/learn with me in BDSM. I'm 6'5 and a virgin to the perverted world. I'm eager to try something more than vanilla sex. Don I am an attractive, well educated, semi-retired 59 year old professional gentleman who is highly discreet and totally trustworthy. I am into age play and administering discipline to ladies who have been naughty and require spankings and other forms of punishment. I would especially like to meet a lady who would like to have me as her Daddy and be my little girl I would prefer a long term relationship. Your age is not important to me but your enthusiasm is. I am 5'8" tall and weigh 175 lbs., with no facial hair but a full head of hair. I am very oral and enjoy both giving and receiving. I live in the Fairfield area of Victoria. If this, or something close to this turns you on, I hope you will email me with your wants and needs to see if we are truly compatible.Sincerely,Larry What it is that W/we are all looking for i do not know except that W/we continue to search for it in the hopes of becoming complete. i am searching for a partner that is wanting to engage in the miriade of dance forms from ballroom to latin (Salsa)to Argentine Tango(Love it). I seek someone interested in that most illusive of all dances, B&D within a D/s relationship. i would like someone who can find delight in the simple things that life has for us; such as the smell of coffee or the softness and warmth of a kiss on the nape of the neck. Someone who can combine that with the strength of their will since i also seek a Woman/Man that is interested in the journey with me being there for Your needs, desires, and passions.i would like to travel to different areas of the world but am not driven to do so as i would much rather discover my own Country and its diversity in culture and beauty.i find great pleasure in a walk amongst the forest or along the beach so long as it is with the someone special that shares in this delight.i am very much seeking that Dominant Soul whose journey would consist of the pleasures that They would derive from my service. Your desires, passions and fantasies would be that which i would want to fulfill.i do not judge, nor do i myself fear judgement, for within that lies questions of which i so want to answer so that You have a better understanding of who i am and who You are in the finding of these answers.i will leave it up to You. May You always be in the Light.Personal elements: 6'2", 185 lbs, short hair, partially shaved, exploring all forms of B&D with the right Individual; cross-dressing, service with a smile, oh and i do windows and all housework related activities...r I am a 33-year-old FEMALE MASOCHIST SLUT I am quite intelligent, sexual, and seductive. My interest is mainly in edge play of the extreme nature therefore I am an extremely cautious and selective female, and not prone to exploring this side of myself with men who are not responsible and well-experienced. I am not interested in women so please do not respond if you are female. I am in the Penticton area and would be most interested should you reside in the area or are willing to travel. Respectfully, tonja I am a 42 GWM DOM in Vic looking for a younger (21-30) male submissive for regular fun and exploration. Interests include but not limited to : blindfolds, hoods, collars, gags, leather cuffs, bondage, toys, feet , tickling, spanking, ball stretcher, spreader bar. You should be clean, non-smoking, honest and have a willing attitude. Age limit can be expanded depending on compatibility and attitude. You should also have pictures to trade. Gregory Bigendered, Bisexual, Bigenerational, BDSM-switch What a mouthful! My preference is to be submissive (slave?)to a TGurl or GGirl Who is keen on a wide range of bdsm and age and water play. i have been "out" in the community, mostly in Vancouver, for about seven years and have been privileged to be Dominated by and submitted to by some very precious people. I attend Segacity from time to time, as well as events in Nanaimo. I will be moving closer to Victoria and Nanaimo in a few months time. Complete profiles on MSN as joni_aby, on Yahoo as two_sprt, on Alt.com as joni-baby, on collarme.com as both jOni and Ladyvaganus. Photos by request. Being With You in the Time Before Fear, i am jOni TSpirit Dominant Female Doctor requires a **Naughty Nurse for a kinky medical session involving a submissive male patient. If you have any experience in medical rolepaly or you would like to assist the Doctor then please
e-mail.cj My dear Mistress de Sade Thank you for letting me cane your disobedient slave last week. Did you see the welts I left on her exquisite white flesh? When I saw her bottom raised so provocatively from the spanking bench, I couldn't resist laying on with a will. She quivered so, and gave such lovely little cries with each stripe I laid across her buttocks . Her face was also quite red from the slapping I gave it (she will misbehave!) Would you mind sending me another naughtly slave next week, if I promise to treat her no better? Yours,BigDaddy I am a YOUTHFUL 40'S MALE SWITCH who is looking for a female partner for kinky play and possibly more. Age and appearance is of less importance than is the willingness to explore the world of BDSM and beyond. Anything is possible except needle play. I have over 3 years of physical experience in this lifestyle but have come to realize, after making my own leather toys, that I was always subconsciously in this world. If you have any ideas for something leather and want it made then I could possibly treat you to it. I strongly believe in safe, sane, and consensual play. If you believe in no boundaries or that they shouldn't exist, then dig up the bones of the Marques de Sade to play with. Otherwise, I am the right partner for you. Luckylibra I am a lean, naturallly smooth bodied MALE BOTTOM who is 5'5", approximately 130 lbs, with a real tight ass that is looking to serve a grizzly bear. Prefer them over 40 and love them rough.jw I am a 59-year-old male Dom semi-retired, slim, fit, and healthy. I have enjoyed a few DS relationships over the years and want very much to find another female partner who would like to play. I am looking for a regular relationship but not 24/7. It would be additionally wonderful to be fortunate enough to meet a young woman who wants to learn BDSM (and perhaps tantra which I have also practiced for some years). I often muse that it would be very satisfying to enable a young person to learn and experience the pleasure (pain?), satisfaction, relief, and deep insight that all these practices can bring for the rest of her life.James Gay guy, 38 interested in making contact with another guy(s) for hot play
sessions. i like dildos and slings, and have some experience with both and
am looking for more. i do enjoy the domination and submission side of things but this is not essential. Drop me a line if you're interested.jx Submissive mature male seeking a mature Domme to serve. Offering no strings
domestic and other services as She may desire. i have many varied BDSM
interests but it is important for me to cater to and serve the interests of
my potential Domme.Mr C I'm curious single male with a strong desire to experience and explore my kinky side but require a partner to share them with. I am straight as far as experience goes but have bi feelings and thoughts often. I would especially love to masturbate for a lady and I'm also interested in masturbating with others. Role playing and cross dressing intrigue me and I love lingerie and tight clothing on myself and others. I am looking to find someone in the Mid to South areas of the Island to share and explore with, hopefully resulting in mutual satisfaction for all. I'm considerate, honest and clean. Explorer Yearning for a spanking, or to be spanked? MWM, very young-looking
61-year-old switch will give old-fashioned, OTK hand or domestic implement
spankings...any age, either gender. No dramatics, no humiliation.
Discretion is expected, and guaranteed. Also needs to get same spankings,
so, exchange is possible. Anthony I am a sub looking for a master/daddy type figure to bring me into the BDSM lifestyle. I have always been interested and now want to fulfill this need. I am a different challenge for my master in that I am a very masculine "FTM" attracted to males. I have fully transitioned except for having a dick. I have a pussy that I like to use, as well as the other standard options! I am located in the Mid-island, and can travel or host and I have some equipment to play with as well. I am clean and healthy, safe and sane. I would like to meet up with someone that is going to put in the same energy as I will and not just have a single session. Email me if you might like to try someone with a twist to offer on the standard Daddy/boy or Master/slave relationship. slave2yrneeds Dominant 42 year old gwm looking for younger(18-30) male submissive for kinky fun and exploration. Interests include but not limited to M/s,blindfolds, hoods, collar, leather cuffs, bondage, toys etc. You should be sincere, honest, and clean with a willing attitude. Serious applicants with photos only please.gjhy I'm a moderately successful young man looking for a lady nearby who is into chastity play. You should be somewhat controlling, have a wicked sense of humour and enjoy the game as much as I do. I have a CB-3000 chastity belt that I've been dying to try out with an interested woman. I'm a reasonably good looking, well spoken and well adjusted person with quite a kinky side. This is all about having fun for both of us, so please no pros (unless you really enjoy it, then I might be willing anyways). Pics and much more info availble. Chastity Keyholder Req i am new to Sagacity and live on Vancouver Island. I am a male in my mid 30s in search of a Dom Female who would be willing to spend her time with me. I in turn would get on my knees and take whatever she has in store for me. I have some experiece in bdsm but would like to broaden my horizons. I am open to have my limits tested so i can be the best submissive possible. camjordan I'm traditional in a lot of ways. I'm happiest with a man who leads in most situations. I'm deeply excited by the idea of the primordial bargain between men and women; the exchange of care and protection for obedience. I'm seeking someone relaxed, good-humoured and strong-willed, who's also looking for a real-life d/s dynamic. I love old-fashioned dating, and prefer being treated like a lady. I'm cautious and reserved at first, but respond well to an intelligent, respectful approach.I'm into books, movies, music, art, design, ideas, conversation, friendly debate. If you like ballroom dance or swing dancing, that's a big plus. Sorry, but I don't date smokers and I'm not willing to move to the US or any province east of BC.
Please send a pic and if I feel a click I'll do the same.Juliekitty A 45 year old Dominant male is seeking submissives in the Victoria area. I am safe, sane, consensual, discreet, clean, and disease free and expect the same.Your looks are not important but your attitude is! niko Looking to try a different flavor? Busty Dominant 35yr old Female is taking applications for play dates of the male submissive/masochistic variety. I have lots of years of BDSM experience but primarily with women so I am looking to expand my repertoire. I want to torture those facinating male parts. I am a plus size sexy goddess skilled with rope, whips, needles, fire, role play and emotional intensity.. Think you can handle it? I live an hour south of Vancouver so you must be willing to travel and trade some offering of your time in exchange for my precious time and energy. I am particularly looking for someone to build some dungeon furniture.. MadamKali Nanaimo based male 38, is looking for female tie up friends. I'm not looking for any kind of relationship other than friendship. I'm fairly new to the doing it scene, but have harboured bondage thoughts for years. I'm completely clean, safe, sane and consensual and dont want any sexual contact so this may attract attached ladies who might not get the chance to try. For those of you who would like to try without others finding out, I am very discreet and expect the same please. I'm starting out on a small scale and see where it takes me.
uniformbinder This experienced submissive would like to meet those who might wish to play or get to know one who loves pain, punishment, and submission.I am 54 and love many aspects of submission.anna I am new to Sagacity. I live in Victoria and I am a 31 year old male 5 ft 10 inches tall, 150 lbs in quite good shape. I am D/D free. I am looking for someone that will help me ease into the lifestyle. I am at the point in my
life where I want to try everything. I have gotten out of a long term relationship a year ago, and I have always wanted to explore this and now I am ready. I believe sex is about sharing a beautiful thing with beautiful
people, and really it all comes down to pleasure. I am looking for someone that is caring, honest, sincere, and d/d free; someone that will be willing to be patient and teach/learn with me, someone always open to new ideas.freemymind James Bay male Independent, good looking, 74 year, 5’10, eyes of blue, 170 lbs, seeks financially-independent female in James Bay who is slim, attractive, 50 years or older, likes her own space, and would like to get together now and then for some fun BDSM or whatever. Send reply (and e-mail address if possible) if interested and we can talk about it more. Lubber On the hunt for a teacher Time to explore and find my niche.
Single, straight male, 48, 6'0", 180, brown eyes. Looking to explore my dominant side with a submissive woman.
I would like to explore my potential with your help. I am new to the lifestyle but have always been very interested. I have a little experience (mostly spank & tickle) but look forward to learning more. Whatever is safe, consensual, and mutually agreed upon. I am open-minded and willing to try almost anything once.
Sparky Tall, blonde, mid-30s Dominant female. I am looking for loyal, eager
submissive males for My stable, for online and r/t domination and
humiliation. I am cruel, demanding, intelligent and discreet. Think you
might be worthy of this Goddess? Send Me a message. MistressIce Dominant male looking for a playmate who wishes to explore all facets of her
sexuality.I'm in my late 40's, happy, healthy and highly intelligent.
This musician/writer is looking for a muse to open the flow of experience
and bliss together.b121 I am a fit, attractive, intelligent....31yr old man who is very submissive but not into pain...i love to service men or women...and crave extreme anal sex and watersports.Readman Elderly male in James Bay seeks shemale 60+ years of age for e-mail conversation Alian1 Greetings everyone. I'm an intelligent, professional, single, mature, submissive bisexual man looking for a long term relationship with a dominant-minded woman. I'm open to negotiation on any and all aspects of D/s roles, including domestic servitude. My primary focus is on one long-term relationship. I enjoy many aspects of bdsm except the more extreme. I am willing to be led and am open to exploring and expanding my limits. If you're interested, please reply to: E. Okay, so I am a bit of a challenge. I will try not to giggle or smirk when you tell me what to do (yeah right) and I really will try to do my best. One thing I can promise, is that I will be hot and wet after the struggle. The Wee One Hello everyone...thanks for having a look...50yrs young sexy cross dresser
in Victoria...very slim and trim...would love to meet other cross dressers
or interested people...for fun play and S/M...lets meet for coffee...i'll be
at the next tuesday meeting...hope to meet some of you people. I'm very new
and very very interested in this woulderful Sagacity World of Domlander.
Vickie We are a very sexy, fit, professional couple living in Victoria, in
search of a sexy female submissive domestic . This will be on a part-
time basis, as our professional and family life makes it difficult to
immerse ourselves full-time in the lifestyle at the present time.
E&C Searching for someone who is interested in BME-extreme.Possibly a trophy hunter
pussycat75 We are a couple in Vancouver who travels to the Island frequently looking
for friends/or play friends in the lifestyle. We have played with other
Doms and submissives before. We have both been in the lifestyle since 1997
and we are married but have a open marriage where we play with others. We
don't have many friends in the lifestyle so even those looking for coffee
friends please e-mail us. I am 33 and he is 40. We are a good looking
couple who enjoy good times and living life well. We have a lifestyle blog
for those wanting more information about us. Please give us a shout if
your interested. cyberghost Young fit male slave available for ownership. Available for domestic or
personal use. Relatively inexperienced but very obdient and accepting of my
roll in life. Will not be 24/7 but can include some aspects of it. No
expectations of the agreement as everything will be geared towards to like
and dislikes of the Mistress. Please reply with details of Your expectations
, thank You very much vic guy hello i'm new i'm a dom i'm 44 yrs old from Victoria bc looking to spank any female subs & to put them in there place & as well as other things feel free to e-mail me at pg ty bye Hi, I'm a 49-year-old male in very good shape, successful in all areas of my life but there is one empty spot. I am so wanting to meet a lady who is willing to share all my kinky hopes and dreams. One who will be feminine and allow me to be femme for her as well. I have experience as a dom but also like to at times be made to dress completely feminine. I do go out once and while as femme and truly enjoy it but lack the main ingredient, that playmate to guide me and me to guide her through a life of honesty and truly open-minded thinking. I would very much like to become a part of the Sagacity scene but want this special woman to hold my hand and step into it together. If this sounds like you ...here I am! Boots Hi.. I am a 54 year old Dom who wishes to have a permanent 24/7 relationship with a like minded submissive. I am a very loyal, caring, intense and monogamous person. I am also able to relocate if it made sense. If you are interested you can find me here, or my yahoo id is ingold444 if you want to use the messenger.
Bill We are both large people(male 6 ft, close to 250,her 54, close to 200)if you are looking for Ken and Barbie, better look elsewhere! LOL We are sincere and loving, and very uninhibited with our sex life. So, where to start? Here goes! We have been involved with some mfm threesomes, and find them much fun. I'm bi, Wife is str8. She finds watching 2 males together, and joining in, her ultimate turn on, which works well, as I enjoy the bi action, and love sharing her. I Love the sounds and sights of another taking her. I have always been the dominate one in our relationship, although not practicing it as a Dom. She is interested in being a practicing Dom. I fully support her in this.
I suppose now what we need is a master to guide us along. One where we would be sub to him, and learn as we go, so we could eventually Dom as a couple over another sub. We would appreciate any thoughts and suggestions on this, as we are new to this lifestyle. Hope to hear from you! L&S Early 30's male located in Victoria seeking women that are into foot fetish fun. I'm more on the submissive side but I would consider reversing the roles. I will consider your feet in exchange for ?....I'm open to trying new things or ideas. I will consider couples. Please send me an email and we'll go from there! J 19 year old male crossdresser looking for a mistress/ companion that is looking for a sub, also interested in bondage, i am in B.C. and am looking for either online domination or real - time. k I am an attractive, fit, intelligent 40 year old
submissive male pet looking for a dominant woman
willing to train me. I'm very inexperienced but
eager to learn and please. Vicsubtoy we are a married couple looking for a single bi-female to fufill the wifes fetish. looking for gal with small hands(not too small hehehe)wink wink, also looking to be sub for your pleasure :) also . drop us a line and see what happens. t male sub 45 tall good looking some say i have had some
experience and would like more i do not live in the
victoria area but do get there from time to time and
im looking to be enjoyed. M Medical Role Play - 44 year old extremely fit male seeks medical examination(s) from female. Extremely health and safety concious. Open to all offers and suggestions. Very generous and able to offer much in return. Not bi.brad Very fit & active newly semi-retired 61 year old easy-going & outgoing professional man seeks an older woman with an insatiable appetite to receive oral (probably as part of a threesome or more). If you hang around with uncircumsized men, I can also service them as well.
I live in both the Gulf Islands & in Vancouver and can be available sporadically in either the Vancouver or Victoria areas.
Best to contact me at cb hi Mistress Goddess .i am 42 years old attractive bottom. i would love to serve Mistress as her maid . i am experienced and very obediant hope to talk soon and show you what a good slave maid i can be.thank you very much for taking the time to read my posting Goddess and hopefully replying thank you Goddess. gordon Victoria Male 47 - looking to explore my dominant side with a woman who is happy to teach some and also explore - I am easy going but can also be very exacting - please reply to a a Very intelligent (not smarter than you), funny(?), fit,
5'11", 180lb man, youthful looking at 40, and very, very
experienced in the arts, is looking for a mature, non
smoking, clever and communicative woman who lives on the
Island. I love giving foot massages, pedicures, buying shoes
and the list goes on. I'm not more than a casual drinker and
take care of my body and can only hope for same. Casual or
casual to serious. Drop me a line. yesmadam i am a genuine experienced male sub 50yrs old living here in NZ, with over 18yrs genuine experience.i am not owned real time, but have been on 2 occasions some yrs ago which only ended due to their circumstances changing.I have high limits & dont ask for set scenarios i accept what is to happen & if necessary work strictly to safe words or signs
i am used here by 2 main Mistresses for their private & public play as they do voyeur sessions but dont do anything on line so i am used on fairly reg basis with them as well as with 2 other Mistresses privately which is sexual as well as a sub role. My main form of control have been, full bondage, cbt, wax play, electro play, strap on use, med scenes, spankings, cane, lashings etc, breath control, sounds etc
However i am addicted & i need regular control & so make myself available on line for chat play & on cam play if it is of interest My goal is to be owned totally again to a strict yet caring Mistress who enjoys her lifestyle role as i do & would be willing to relocate if I was found to be suitable.
i have a profile on yahoo under slavetreva3 which is genuine with a link to my page http://groups.yahoo.com/group/slavetrevbound with pics of me on cam & others I did have a Yahoo group for 3 yrs which has just been deleted for no apparent reason along with my Yahoo lists so are having to start all over So if i could be of use amusement pleasure to you i would be honored to prove my worth I only mention the online thing so as to get to know me better. I don’t do it for just self satisfaction only as part of genuine servitude, I assure you submissive regards
slave trevor New to Sagacity. I'm a 46 year old man, 6'4" with short gray hair, hazel eyes, a moustache and I weigh around 200 lbs. I'm straight, neither top nor bottom, but I have a fetish for pain, mostly in the form of a teeth and biting fetish. I like to give and receive, though my preference is to receive. I'm looking for a woman who is interested in exploring her sexuality with me. I'm intereted in experimenting with different forms of lovemaking, Tantra and the Kama Sutra. I have a love of
travel and my current fascination is with Mexico and learning the language. To know more, write to me at mexico nat I am a Dom looking for submissives for safe,sane play.
Dom Neither dom nor sub, but eclectically playful and open-minded: fit, intelligent, educated male, 59, straight, attached (partner not included), tall, nice looking, not balding, well endowed, seeks libidinous woman given to lusting, laughing, and loving, for joint exploration of bodily pleasures and pursuit of exquisite ecstasies by various means both natural and artificial. Send me some photos, and I’ll send mine to you.lustyspirit Hello, I am a 26 year old submissive male, who is new
to the scene, and new to Victoria. I'm looking for a
dominant female, or females, of any age, who would
like to explore the possibility of getting together
for some play sessions. I have limits, as I'm sure
you do too, and both are expected to be respected. I
am open to all sorts of play, but would like to
explore cbt. If need be I can play the dominant.
Maximum discretion is mandatory. Please contact for
an initial introductory meeting at solo Very feminine and very submissive 30 year old crossdresser just north of
Victoria looking to serve domme female. Would luv to be your maid, do your
dishes, scrub your floors and follow your orders. Novice to scene but I
just luv receiving spankings and would like to try light bondage. Have
total fetish for tight n shiny clothes (especially pvc n lycra) n stiletto
shoes n boots. I'm fun, friendly and eager to serve. Can't wait to hear
from you. bianca I am a 50 ish Dom attractive, well educated, and
successful, seeking a playful subby . I find an
attractive, intelligent woman with sub tendencies to
be especially appealing and enjoy allowing her to
explore the limits of her sexuality as well as
experience new levels of intimacy and closeness. I'm
not entirely altruisitic as I will enjoy using you for
my own pleasure, knowing that in doing so it will just
deepen your cravings and sexual arousal.Why don't you tell me about yourself, experience to date, and what you are looking for. bplace Greetings. My name is jonathan, I am a new to the local scene 33 year old sub looking for a dominate female. I bring strength both phsyically and emotionally. I offer services in domestic areas as well as many other areas that can be disussed as our trust grows. Not looking for 24/7 right now but again things can change as we grow. I have studied this life style for two years and now feel that I am in a place in my life where I can make this another part of what is a full and busy life. I would be honored to meet you and talk about what we can be for each other I can be reached at jonathan Twenty year old curvy lady looking for an
introduction into bdsm play leading into becoming a
dominatrix. Perhaps an older dominant female or male
to learn from? Or maybe sub to let me practice on and
play with? Open to any suggestions. me Hello. 30 Year old inexperienced Sub looking for someone to teach me the ropes. (no pun intended!) Interested in light bondage, nipple/ball torture, strap-on and anal play. Limits include watersports and breaking of the skin. I'm open to new ideas and look forward to experiencing the physical and emotional joys that the lifestyle may bring. Not interested in a full time relationship at this time, but would be very interested in some introductory "play dates".
Picture is available upon request, and discretion will be expected and respected.
bdsmnewcock sub looking for large domme.You are imaginative and you know how to put me
in my place. i am here to worship you and to be punished.Roleplay
welcome.Total power exchange. BobVic Experienced Dominant Male Single 43-year-old non-smoking, 5'10" Large and in charge. About to move to Victoria (within 90-120 days) seeks adventurous, non-smoking very submissive female, Age, weight and looks are not an issue. I Have been in the BDSM lifestyle for approximately 12 years. I a most interesed in bondage, erotic photography. I have all the equipment and toys required to play. I am hoping to find a suby that is willing to consider a collared long term romantic loving relationship that revolves around the BDSM lifestyle.. if you are seeking someone and still have not found what you are looking for then, please contact me Hi I live in Kamloops and I'm looking for for a female dom or couple to serve. I am 48 years old, clean, and can travel but would like some one around Kamloops area. Please get back to me Bill Hello, I am a warm-hearted woman, 35, and enjoy many flavours of bdsm, submission, and the eroticism of progressive play. My search is for a man of good character that is intellectually stimulating, intuitive, and inventive. He is dominant by nature with a good understanding of D/s play, and particularly enjoys the psychological component. Most importantly though, he takes pride in his ability to play safely. His deliciously wicked imagination will hold my attention.s Male 59 widowed 59-year-old non-smoking, 5'8" 160 lb male living in the central Vancouver Island area is looking for a non-smoking female, slim to average build, about my age to share time with. I am not specifically into the BDSM lifestyle but I am trying to find a lady who could tolerate if not embrace and share my latex/rubber/leather fetish. My fetish is not extreme. I just want to share sexual activities with a lady dressed in fetish gear. Open to casual encounters or an extended relationship with the right person. If there is a lady looking for a similar situation, please contact me.Alaj Male 44, looking for a lovely little woman to spank and engage in other erotic play. If you need a switch, I can be that for you, though I'd much rather give than receive (so my heart's in the right place, isn't it?). I'm looking for a woman of almost any age, smaller as I'm not a large man myself, but don't let anything stop you from replying. I'm happy to tell you more about me when you write.S Submissive male seeks a dominant-minded woman for a mutually-satisfying relationship, possibly LTR if the chemistry is right. I've had strong submissive feelings all my life but have little real experience in life with
a truly dominant woman. I'm not particularly into public play parties or that sort of thing, but seek a private relationship with my Mistress at the centre. I'm lacking experience in bdsm, but willing to learn. I'm 49, 6'1", 190 lb. Following on the idea of the brain or mind as the real sex organ, I'm stimulated by good conversation about social and sexual issues, especially the "battle of the sexes". It won't work for me if we can't talk intelligently about these things. Send a message to me if any of this is interesting...Ciao! Mature Submissive Looking for a special mature Dominant man. I would like to hear from all you wonderful dominant men out there. I prefer a older more mature man, in any case must be experience enough not to make me regret this. I have not had much experience except a few spankings and some bondage, however every time was enjoyable for me. I am in a committed relationship, so not looking for a new one. It is with my partners permission, and he would like to watch and be a part of this adventurer also. If you are willing to be a patient sensual erotic explorer with a great spirit for fun and playtime, please contact me, and we can get to know each other on line first, and perhaps more if the conversation leads to it. Excited now and later.snowy I am a young submissive looking to please my master. He is interested in having another woman or couple come over for some private play time. If you're interested and in the Victoria area please contact me and we can exchange details and see if there is a mutual interest. New4U Submissive Male that is brand new to this lifestyle seeks a Dominant woman who is willing to teach him all. I am a fit and attractive 37 yr old male who is very curious about the lifestyle. I am unattached. I am very interested in strap-on play and being dominated by a sexy lady. Please be patient with me as I am new to this.M Dominant male seeks submissive female for play. I'm a considerate, patient, adventuresome male who likes to spank and practice my knotwork, among other things. I'm relatively new to the lifestyle so ideally I would like to meet
a woman who is willing to learn and grow with me. Age is not an issue but smoking is. Please no smokers...at least not while playing! Pendragon Dominant woman seeks sub/slave for domestic and personal service. Sub may be male, female, or transsexual. Duties will include cleaning, cooking,laundry, minor household repairs, fetching and carrying, errands,footrubs, backrubs, and some sexual service (to be discussed). Some pain play will also be included. All limits will be respected, including physical limitations to service. This will not be a live-in position to begin with, but may evolve into 24/7 service. Slave must be willing and eager to serve, intelligent, articulate and a good communicator. Reply with a detailed description of how you might serve me and what skills you have that I can draw upon (examples: sewing,gourmet cooking, carpentry, massage, etc.) as well as your own expectations of the relationship to Lady Mia 41 year old male bottom seeking Female Goddess to show me the ropes. 150lbs, exceptionally fit. Fairly inexperienced but eager to learn. Enjoy good old fashioned discipline, medical role play, humiliation, ball torture. Open minded, but extremely health and safety conscious. I humbly offer myself for your pleasure. Well mannered, clean, intelligent. Discretion required. Open to all options and suggestions.
Not bi.Brad We are a couple from Port Angeles WA..looking for a sub lady or sub couple to take care of us when we visit Victoria, which can be frequently. I am a pro musician and am looking to expand my presence there. We are real nice and as straightforward as they come; loving but controlling, with bright eyes. helibob I AM ON THE HUNT FOR A TEACHER School's back in and this school girl doesn't mind the leather whips, just be gentle with the rulers! I am not experienced but have enjoyed a good spanking, whipping, and other erotic acts with one or two people. Now It's time to broaden my horizons and "go big or go home." If you would like to to be this stargazer's mentor, let's hook up! Male/Female, all are welcome. I am situated north of Victoria. Mail to: Star SUBMISSIVE MAN craves intense training and is LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT WOMAN that enjoys applying bondage to train. Let's start out casually, become friends and see where it leads. Also open to couples, where she is dominant. Please be at least a little bit height and weight proportionate and somewhat fit. Mail to: hua.hua MISTRESS IS IN NEED OF ANOTHER SUB SLUT to use for her pleasure. Would prefer a female, but will take a male as well. Both must properly beg Mistress for her attentions and give likes and dislikes.Contact mistresssan LOOKING FOR A NOVICE FEMALE SUB or someone who is just curious about being played with, I'm a young 47-year-old dominant male that goes by the handle of "Pleasure Dom," 6'2", 190, uncut, blonde, blue eyes, and easy on the eyes. I love using sex toys and kitchen gadgets on a tied up woman. I won't leave any permanant marks. Limits and personal care will always be respected. I'm a fun person, great sense of humor and very, very creative. Thanks for reading my ad and I hope to hear from you. Mail to: Gray
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Write to SJThe Marketplace series? If not I suggest you do! Some of my lifestyle interests are: Protocol, Victorian and neo-Victorian dress and manners, Local group, munches and events, Mental bondage, Obedience, Piercings, Exhibitionism, Objectification. Would also consider most interests that a slave comes with. Limits include: being topped, children in lifestyle, scat. Natural slave: A Natural slave is a person for whom slavery can be better than freedom, since they have the capacity to experience less emotional stress, anxiety, resistance and struggle when living in that condition, without the depression normally associated with psychological helplessness. Thus they are suited to slavery by their nature - by some inherent quality of their psychological makeup. Scammers take note. I do not send money to people I do not know or have not met. Do not waste your time or mine. HT
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