Workshops
Canes 101 & 201
Canes, canes, and more canes. It does not matter if you are new to the scene or considered an Elder… We all probably have at least one cane in our toy bag. It was probably one of the first toys you ever played with, along with those cloths pins and that length of rope. But how often do we actually use canes? Are they just one more toy in the bag? They are either loved or hated by bottoms. They can be a "heavy" or "edgy" form of play, but can also be sensuous and magical as well. Have you ever wanted to do a complete scene with just canes? Wanted to know more about how to use them, where to use them, and maybe even how to care for them? This series of workshops will dispel some myths and give you the knowledge to put the passion back into caning. Canes 101 - The Basics will cover various cane dynamics, The What, Where, How, and Why of all aspects of this very versatile instrument. This workshop will expand your knowledge of the various types of canes, what a cane is, what they are made from, how it behaves in flight, what to look for in a cane and the dynamics of wielding one...or even two! Get more out of your canes and your bottoms with Trailmaster and Monique to show you how. In Canes 201- The Magic we will learn how to put the MAGIC back into a good caning session. You already know the basics – the what, where and how of wielding canes. Now it’s time to put it all together and make that memorable experience for you both. From "Corporal Punishment" to "Rythmic” and/or “Sensuous Caning"...with a special focus on making it that "complete" scene. This is a hands-on workshop, so bring your canes and be prepared to participate. We'll be looking for a few "special" volunteers to assist us in demonstrating various techniques. |
Come On Baby, Light My Fire There are few things more primal and mesmerizing than a dancing flame. Fire play is the only form of play where there are two players but actually three living entities. Join Donna DiaWana as she explores this hot and sensual form of play. We will cover materials, techniques, and safety. You will also have an opportunity to try fire play should you so choose. If you have anything in particular you would like to see about this topic, feel free to send an email to donnadiawan@gmail.com or contact her on Fetlife (username: DonnaDiawana) with your suggestions. |
Getting your Mean On: Playing with Passion
Miss Leslie is passionate about play. You have your favorite toys, you're all dressed up and the party is rockin! Now what? This workshop will help you to discover the joy of playing passionately. Let go and feel. |
Shockingly Delicious
Qybix presents an introduction to the world of electro-stimulation for both sensual and interrogation play. Starting with a quick over view of what the equipment does, how to apply the stimulation safely, and how to achieve your session goals every time. This workshop will include information on:
At the end of the workshop, curious (and brave) people are welcome to come up and try things. |
Single Tail Dancing: Kiss To Blood
Have you every witnessed a scene that draws you in and changes your breath? This is what happens with Daddy Crone Leenie's Single Tail Dancing. "S/he has a way with the whip that will trance you into submission. Very energy-oriented, and s/he demonstrates this effortlessly." Come learn the dance and flow that is possible. Guiding those that wish to throw the whip plus assisting bottoms work through their resistance of receiving the whip. Creating an opportunity to reshape negative experiences into a re-opening/positive experience. Leenie will take you on this journey and leave you with solid skills, power exchange energy awareness, and continued Whip Desire. Although this class is participation based, the dance is mesmerizing to watch and an altering experience for everyone. The class is so much more than technique. As one participant wrote "In reading the class summary, I just knew I had to attend. It is all about the energy and connection for me, seemingly rare in the understanding of most people I encounter. Never before had I touched the edges of knowing my own capabilities of surrender as I did when the white-hot-fire of a single-tail was used as the extension tool for my partners energy. One of the most beautiful experiences of my life. Suffice to say, your class and focus on motivation/intent and energy moved me deeply and reconfirmed my own understandings as truths. Thank you." Please bring your signal or mini bullwhip and experience the Passion, Joy, Fear, and Healing. Let's Dance!
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BDSM Primer Whether you're into the big whips and heavy chains or just want to play a little slap n' tickle, there's a starting point and a right way to take those first steps into the world of kink. Join Strictnine as he guides you through the most basic "do's" and "dont's," the "how’s" and "why’s", and maybe even touch on a little prudence and safety along the way. This special Friday-Night-Only "mini" is a great workshop for the beginner, valuable for those with a little experience, and fun for everyone. Bring your questions, no matter how basic or easy, and be prepared to laugh as we get your kinky self off and running...ready to "master" the BDSM world! |
Pervertables
Let's face it—BDSM gear is expensive! Yet with a little imagination—it is possible to collect an entire dungeon of toys without breaking the bank. In fact, it is sort of fun to "repurpose" every day articles and almost as much fun accumulating them…especially if you happen to be shopping with Vanilla friends! Join Usha and Dean as they share some of their prevertible secrets. Bring your best finds to compare to others. Those seated first will be given prevertible prizes! |
The Energy Within - 101 & 201 Sir Scott Bryen focuses on the concept and some beginning practices for using the body’s energy as yet another tool in our arsenal of play options. During the course of Energy Within 101, we will investigate our own body energy field and ways that it can interact with play partners. This workshop is targeted at intermediate and expert players looking to add another dimension to the play they have mastered already. In the Energy Within 201 workshop, Sir Scott will delve deeper into energistic techniques with an exploration of ways to both bring you closer to your partner and to augment your sex and play life. This class will be for people who attended the Energy Within 101 earlier in the day. Note: This series is limited to 20 people (preferably couples). It is best suited for couples who have already established a play relationship, however, the concepts will be useful for singles. |
Hurt So Good
Sure...we all enjoy pain. It's fun times for everyone involved. However, pain can be used for so much more. Pain can be used for cathartic reasons. Pain can break down the walls we put up to protect ourselves. In this workshop, BigBadJim will show us how to safely walk down this dangerous but fulfilling path. This class will have a live demo if there is someone willing to discuss the issues they are facing. |
Projecting Force
 If you ask your partner what your most intense toy is, what response do you get? In this workshop, Wolf helps you take a look at a different perspective on "toys." Learn some new techniques designed to make almost anything in your hands (including nothing at all) naughty or nice. Completely change the sensations inflicted by your usual toys - learn to look at them more as tools used to focus your force. Techniques in this workshop include focusing force through the following:
You will learn techniques that will be useful in many situations. You will also learn to focus your strength and learn how to control it for both intense, and sensual reasons - even using the same toy. Note: This is not a beginners workshop on the technique of impact play. We will focus on refining what one might call "the usual" techniques. Beginners will certainly get something out of the workshop, but some experience with at least some of the above implements would be beneficial. This is an interactive workshop. (Pssst...bottoms and subs...in this workshop you can learn how to easily [and effectively] fight back...but don't tell your Tops/Doms I said that!)
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Sensory Deprivation
 Most BDSM play involves the sense of touch...But what happens when we remove or restrict the other senses? With pre-planned sensory deprivation, you can take even the simplest games to a new level of intensity and pleasure! In this impact-free workshop, Strictnine will explore the possibilities created by heightening sensations through the denial of one or more senses. We'll review everything from simplest tricks to the heaviest forms of isolation. Hoods, gags, blindfolds, masks, the isolation cage, and even the infamous head box! Although this workshop is actually quite claustrophobe-friendly, you'll want to bring your sense of adventure...We aren’t just going to talk about it, we're going to get interactive! |
C.B.T. (a/k/a O.U.C.H.)
Cock and ball torture...more commonly referred to C.B.T.!! C'mon...one of the easiest things to do is kick him in the nuts, but how do you keep him coming back for more? Guys will want to gird their loins (a protective cup is a good idea) and Gals will want to sharpen their nails (skewers work well too) as they join Momma Bitch for a basic 101 on how to get your rocks off by hurting his! This workshop should be a real ball...or two! |
Command & Control...Building Trust
What is that word..."trust"...that lifestylers put so much emphasis on? What is its value? What are its detriments? Explore exercises for developing trust, communication and intellectually stimulating play that can lead to deeper more intense scenes. Discover enjoyable kinky (and not so kinky) things you can do that are a stimulating scene on their own and develop your capacity for deeper, more intense scenes in the future. Join Lord Mykel and Lady Moonfyre in this is a fascinating workshop that focuses on the importance of communication and how to develop those skills from both the top and the bottom side for the enjoyment of all. |
Scarification Vanessa and the ever-popular Elwood present a comprehensive look at scarication. Scarification is the art
of creating designs in the body through the use of scar tissue. It
sounds painful, but if it is done properly, the sensation can be
incredible, and the finished product a work of art. |
The Mad Doctor Is In!
Many people are afraid of the doctor’s office and avoid it at all costs. Snook just sees it as a place to get great ideas! When people think of the term "medical play", they usually get a picture in their mind of a naughty nurse or a kinky doctor telling you that this might hurt a little...But let’s look a bit closer. Medical play is actually a large umbrella term that a variety of play falls under. Even some of the play regularly done in the dungeon has its roots in medical play or could be adapted for it. Sometimes its just a matter of approach and intent. This medical play workshop will take a look at the many different types of medical play you can explore, as well as the "why". We’ll talk about some of the issues that every dungeon doctor should think about when doing medical play. We’ll also discuss ideas for the tools and props you can use, roles and scenarios you can play out, and terrible things you can do to people all in the name of medicine! I’m sure we can even convince a patient or two to hop up on the medical table...Really, it’s for your own good...Trust me...I’m a doctor! |
The Reality of Slavery – A True Story
Beverley discovered the bdsm lifestyle in 1992 after a lengthy vanilla marriage. She is a mother, recently a grandmother, and the owner of a successful business in Vancouver. No one who has met her would dispute that she is confident, stubborn, and opinionated. For 5 years she lived as a slave, giving up her free will to the man who owned her. The relationship came with its share of highs and lows to the extreme. For the first time since Beverley gave up her collar, she is here to share her experience and ideas with those of you on the same path...or who dream of beginning just such a journey. There will be a question and answer period at the end. |
Interrogations, Takedowns, Play Rape, and Brats: Resistance Play
If you don't feel "Yes, of course, Master!" or "I'll do anything you say Mistress!" on the tip of our tongue, you’re not alone. Resistance play ranges from light-hearted brattiness to rough takedowns and edgy interrogation scenes and covers a lot of territory in between! In this thought-provoking workshops, Elaine Miller will talk about take-down safety issues, how to make your adult brat have a tantrum, and how to know the right time to tell the secret location of buried treasure. Explore the form of play where "Oh yeah? Make me!" are the words guaranteed to make all your eyes light up! |
Oooh...Scary Stuff There is something great about playing with the biggest sexual organ in the body...the mind. Witnessing fear in the eyes of another can be a huge turn on for the sadistic. Fear play can be cathartic, bringing great psychological benefit to the bottom. It can also represent a challenge for a Top with regard to controlling a bottom in a safe and manageable manner. In light of that, one of the problems with fear play is that it becomes harder to achieve as the Top and bottom get closer. In this workshop, BigBadJim will discuss ways to keep the panic flowing (consensually of course...well...sort of) and provide a few important cautions practitioners need to be aware of. |
Fisting: The Ins and Outs of Vaginal Fisting
Being fisted is a delightfully pleasurable way of fucking that involves every nerve ending in a woman's body. Fisting is an act of cooperation and trust...we have to practice a lot to get there, warming up and using lots of lube, and...need I go on? Being the fister means participating in your partner's pleasure in a way that could almost be called selfless...well mostly... In this hands-in full demo, Elaine Miller will help you learn the ins and outs of vaginal fisting...including the aspects of hygiene and safer sex precautions, safety, fun, lube choice, and relaxation. Handouts will be given to participants...Pardon the pun! |
Pony Play Demystified - Parts I and II
Pony Play is one of the practices within the kink community that is regarded with confusion, curiosity, and intrigue. Pony Play is addictive, visually impactful, dynamic bondage, and movement. It has multiple modes of practice that range from purely imaginative casual play to elaborate gear, training, and the serious pursuit of an ideal. Join Lord Mykel and lady Moonfyre as they explore the basics of pony play, the motivation behind it, the mindset, the gear—both purpose built and homemade improvisations, and how BDSM fits into it all. From the perspective of both the trainer and the pony we will take a journey with the participants exploring the appeal of this fetish. Time and interest permitting we may do some hands on pony training with the ponies and trainers in the audience. This workshop runs for two blocks. Admittance to the second half of the class will not be permitted unless you have attended the first session |
Rough Rope: Sadistic Rope Skills For some, rope is a tool for beauty and sensuality...he snug but soft caress of the rope, the beauty of the ties... And for others, rope is a great way to be deliciously mean. In this spellbinding workshop, Merit will review the history of rope torture and teach you about rope as a weapon and a restraint. You'll also learn some speed rope that's quick and painful, and how to tie it all together to create a great scene. Please wear comfortable clothing and bring some rope (at least two 10'-15' lengths and three 30' lengths; 6 mm-8 mm preferred) for hands-on practice. |
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